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20 Sep 2012, 12:20 am

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a quality silicone facsimile will keep your package out of lots of trouble, and feeling damned good as well :bounce:


Whaaaat is that? Are you trolling? ;)


I am reasonably certainly that auntblabby is referring to the Fleshlight (tm).


I had a hunch that was what it was. Yeah tried it and doesn't really do it for me. Find i can't "get off" so to speak.


(clicky)THIS is what i was referring to! i've used 2 of 'em [cinammon and vanillla] for a year now and they meet all my willie needs in spades. :thumleft: highly recommended. if you can't get off from one of these, then chances are you won't be able to get off with anything. of course they work better after you've "foreplayed" yourself with lots of explicit porn first.



ROFL....I clicked the clicky out of curiosity and now I no longer feel like a virgin. LOL jk I am panromantic Asexual btw. :lol:


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20 Sep 2012, 8:08 am

I've seen those fleshlight things. As a woman they look a bit suspect to me. It doesn't look like it'd feel nice. I suppose it must, because otherwise no one would use them.



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20 Sep 2012, 11:10 pm

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I've seen those fleshlight things. As a woman they look a bit suspect to me. It doesn't look like it'd feel nice. I suppose it must, because otherwise no one would use them.

as a man i can vouch for the fact that they provide heavenly feelings of satisfaction. but they are akin to steak sans sizzle, the cyberskin booty gives off some sizzle in addition to the tube steak.



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21 Sep 2012, 3:47 am

Right then auntblabby, I shall take your word for it. :D



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15 Feb 2013, 4:26 am

Well, that's interesting. Y'know the ring finger "measurement"? I did comparisons to most people in my class, etc. and wound up finding about the same levels of testosterone as the girls, despite being a guy. I think either my or their data is wrong.



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19 Feb 2013, 10:44 pm

I have a very high sexdrive and no, it hasn't lessened one bit through the years. Wish I could shut it off sometimes. Have wished that even when in relationships, with partners that couldn't keep up. It's...frustrating being frustrated all the time :wink:



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28 Feb 2013, 6:03 pm

I have a huge sex drive. My husband calls me hornball lol
I always wondered about sex as a kid and would have sexual thoughs way before losing my virginity at age 18.
Started masturbating at age 16 nd still do. I often iniciate sex with my husband :P
Im ok with it now, used to feel ashamed when I was a teen but im a grown woman now and I dont think its a bad thing I love sex so much as long as its kept between me and my husband :wink:



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28 Feb 2013, 6:20 pm

Goodness Auntblabby, Amazon UK isn't that liberated.

I bought a Fleshlight, felt better than some women I had, thing is, I only ever washed it in warm water, but after a while, the material went very sticky, so I bought some of that powder they recommend, which made it ok for a single use, but when I washed it, it went back to being sticky again, any ideas?

As for Aspies having high testosterone, Iam not so sure, doesn't high testosterone stop you growing early, make you bald etc?, I don't get the impression most Aspies are short stocky bald men, rather the opposite in fact.



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28 Feb 2013, 6:25 pm

Nambo wrote:
Goodness Auntblabby, Amazon UK isn't that liberated. I bought a Fleshlight, felt better than some women I had, thing is, I only ever washed it in warm water, but after a while, the material went very sticky, so I bought some of that powder they recommend, which made it ok for a single use, but when I washed it, it went back to being sticky again, any ideas?
As for Aspies having high testosterone, Iam not so sure, doesn't high testosterone stop you growing early, make you bald etc?, I don't get the impression most Aspies are short stocky bald men, rather the opposite in fact.

use the powder after every use, wash religiously between uses. keep in dry place in open air. always use ky jelly or similar starch-based lube and NEVER silicone lube! take proper care of it and it will take proper care of you. and this aspie is tall and tends to slenderness [but muscular legs], so i doubt that i have too much testosterone.



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05 Mar 2013, 4:21 am

Nambo wrote:
As for Aspies having high testosterone, Iam not so sure, doesn't high testosterone stop you growing early, make you bald etc?, I don't get the impression most Aspies are short stocky bald men, rather the opposite in fact.


Well, I'm 23 and already have a little bald spot.

I wouldn't say I have a high sex drive though...



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05 Mar 2013, 6:40 pm

Yeeeah, that could just be a 19 thing. Or an AS thing. Or both.

I've read, and experienced myself, that aspies can go through periods of really high sex drives that can last for years, then go through periods with little to know sex drives that can last just as long.

Soooo there's know way to know for sure exactly, but it doesn't reeeeaally matter, so long as it's not completely interfering with your life/work/school/sleep etc and is controllable vs. overwhelming, taking up waaaay too much time, costing you waaaay too much sleep etc.



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14 May 2016, 8:52 pm

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The sex drive will go down as you age -- and you might even miss it. But yeah, it's good to try to be aware of the other person's comfort level and never force or even try to argue someone into doing anything they're not cool with. Good luck!


I don't think that is true /correct at all about sex drive reducing with age .



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14 May 2016, 8:58 pm

AlexD wrote:
Hi All,

Just thought i would create this thread to see what other people feel and whatnot.
SO basically im a 19 year old guy with Apserger's. I'm also a virgin and I consider myself Bisexual with a tendancy towards attraction to men.

I was just wondering if people are in the same boat as me and have a stupidly high sex drive. I've had sexual urges since 9 years old (No joke) and begun masturbation around 13 years old. I read on a research paper that people with asperger's tend to have incredibly high testosterone levels partially due to exposure in the womb (i might be wrong). particulalry during the teen years, this is quite obvious for some. People think im just saying this to try and fit in with NT teenagers when it's actually the truth. Sorry for the explicity in this post.

Alex D

P.S is it normal to have this high a sex drive when you're still a virgin?


My husband was exactly like you as a teenager. Actually, he still is at 33.

I started masturbating with I was in first grade...

Working out can help, if you're feeling overwhelmed with this.



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14 May 2016, 9:15 pm

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Well, that's interesting. Y'know the ring finger "measurement"? I did comparisons to most people in my class, etc. and wound up finding about the same levels of testosterone as the girls, despite being a guy. I think either my or their data is wrong.


I'm highly skeptical to that meaning as much as it's made out to mean.


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15 Aug 2016, 5:53 am

Glad I found this article, I've been runnin around with a boner since I was six, started fapping when I was 11 and thought it was a problem xD Not a virgin ans still I could literally bump into a table and be ready to rumble, you're not alone man.



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15 Aug 2016, 5:58 am

Nasanieru_024 wrote:
Glad I found this article, I've been runnin around with a boner since I was six, started fapping when I was 11 and thought it was a problem xD Not a virgin ans still I could literally bump into a table and be ready to rumble, you're not alone man.

you lucky man :wtg: btw, welcome to our club 8)