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i have asperger was diagonosed at 3 and i live in PA where am in a progarm called ACAP (adult cummuity autism program) ran by keystone

well any way am vary horny all the time and i end up have sex with total random guys off craigslist at lest 1 or 2 times a week. the thing is i dont like it when thay touch me but i do like it at the same time its confusing. and i cant seem to stop wanting to have sex. i know about HIV and all that bad things.

am 29 is this normal for a guy my age. i want to find a guy to be my boyfriend but most gay guys i see just want to have sex, and never see me any more. i wish i can have my roommite as my boyfriend he like me so much and understands me but he is not gay.

well any way anyone have any views or ideas am open

It's normal for Aspie's sex drive to vary, and can go from very high to pretty well non-existant for weeks, months, or years.

If you feel you're being too impulsive to the point that it's almost a compulsion and isn't something you want to be doing, then try doing some meditation or other mindfulness exercises to clear your head & refocus your thoughts, time & energy on doing something else. Running, reading, watching movies, listening to music, tackling something on your to-do list.. whatever.

Probably wouldn't hurt any to jerk off more often instead of hooking up, either. Just sayin'.

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Oh lord, fighting sex drives is a losing battle for just about everyone! I'd have to agree with goldfish on the last one. Just jerk off dude.

I don't recommend having sex with a bunch of random people.

Just masturbate and try to find a nice guy or something.

Just figured I'd throw some gasoline on the fire and share the insights of the most nympho NT person I know.. he would wonder why anyone thought there was something wrong with them for being horny and getting laid as much as they possibly can in life, as that's one of the main things he's lived for over the years. Sure, money/success/competition/career/sports etc all play huge roles in his life, but he's the kind of guy that's spent a lot of years living for sexual encounters and conquests and virtually every opportunity and doesn't see it as a bad thing in the least bit. That's just how some people live their lives.*

*within reason. Ie he wouldn't forego sleep for days on end to compulsively seek out sex 24/7, but just doesn't see anything inherently wrong with being horny all the time.

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No for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.