A Strange Sexuality Issue

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Would any of you guys agree that it is just easier to be with other males? It seems to me that it is easier to understand what is going on and what is expected. I have identified as Bi for years, but lean towards Gay. I have to work hard to meet the needs of a woman.

I find it easier be wth other men also thuogh I am bisexual - Im gusing it wuold make sens on the gruond that yuo are likly to have a moer simlar attitud toward sex as anothr man, beside that yuo both undrstand the equipmnt prety well lol.

I think there is some anxiety from the stress of having to perform for women. Not just when you're courting them, but all the time in relationships with them. Whereas men don't need to be constantly reminded you love them, or constantly given verbal signs of affection. Just, you know, every once in a while is fine. Spontaneously instead of regularly and that's what I prefer. They're closer to where my 'normal' is, and I feel like I'm running on a treadmill trying to keep up when I'm dating women.

That said, I still find the ladies very attractive, and I still get crushes on them. It's strong enough to make it worth putting in the work to pursue them.