I'm male but in my dreams i'm female and i'm at a total loss

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Ty, i love it too

In my dreams i'm called Rayne (sounds like Rain )
My RL nickname is Ray.

Many of us don't fit neatly into the obvious categories - I really don't think I'm transgender, but I've had dreams and daydreams sort of like yours, I've even dreamt I was a pregnant woman. Anyway, feel free to PM if yo like.

Kheelan, are you familiar with Jack Molay's blog? "Crossdreamers: On men and women who dream about being the other sex, crossdreaming, crossdressing and transgender issues"
http://www.crossdreamers.com/2008/01/re ... ns-of.html

I didn't know of Jack's blog, but i'm reading it now and trying to make sence of it all (as English is not my native language and it's a lot of information to take in.)

ty ty ty

It's not his first language either -- I think he's Norwegian.

I don't it can help you but do you see yourself differently or as the oppsite gender. The mind is still one of the greatest mystery of our time. We still don't understand it much. And we barely tap about a average of 5 to 10 percent. If your asking for answer. Maybe I got some for you.
One your mind or mirror of yourself is not what you see as yourself.


Two you have some transgener issues that you have to deal with!


Three you want to wear the feminine clothes as a experiment to see if you are comforable in them!


Four you feel uncomforable in male clothes and girls give you a comfored!


Five if you believe in quantumn physics. You mind could have broking into an alternate reality. Where you were born a girl. And some how your dreams. Have choosen to see your self as female.

Six that reality is normal for males to dress to in dresses.


If you find some of these questions are worth exploring. Do it!

Sorry for the late reply.

I've been fighting myself and tried to think sense into things.
I read the last reply and it got me thinking... and thinking a lot.

I'll answer the questions as good as i can, Rhodry.

1- true. The 0,00001 second between seeing yourself in the mirror and your eyes focusing, is the moment i see a glimp of my inner self. (a woman)

2- very true. I've told a few friends about my feelings and while i don't dare to realize myself, they say, i DO know exacly what i want. I want to be a woman on the outside.

3- Tried that a little bit. I'm not sexually aroused. It just feels normal to me. I just have to be very carefull not to be caught and that makes me way to tense atm.

4- I feel comfortable in male and female cloths. even without cloths. it's my body that's the problem. I close my eyes and i feel breasts. My jewels dangle to much. aaaargh frustration.

5- I would like that. that would be much simpler. Even being just gay would be simpler. But i'm not simple. I'm a lesbian in a male body.

6- It's not normal for males to dress in dresses. Those are the social rules that i do know. I had very strict parents and i've learned all social rules very well.


love Kheelan aka Raynae (yeah i've changed my alt name a bit. this will be my deff. name.)