Page 1 of 1 [ 11 posts ] 

AspieUtah
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Jun 2014
Age: 62
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,118
Location: Brigham City, Utah

26 Jun 2015, 9:07 am

The U.S. Supreme Court affirmed marriage equality today in the case of Obergefell v. Hodges (Ohio) which the Court consolidated with three other same-sex marriage cases, Tanco v. Haslam (Tennessee), DeBoer v. Snyder (Michigan) and Bourke v. Beshear (Kentucky). States must marry same-sex couples and recognize the marriages of same-sex couples in all states.

Ironically, the Court opinion was published: 1) exactly two years after the opinion about Hollingsworth v. Perry, 570 U.S. ___ (2013) (Docket No. 12-144), which determined that the official sponsors of a ballot initiative measure did not have Article III standing to appeal an adverse federal court ruling, 2) exactly two years after the opinion about United States v. Windsor, 570 U.S. ___ (2013) (Docket No. 12-307), which invalidated the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), and 3) exactly 12 years after the opinion about Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558 (2003), which invalidated so-called sodomy laws.


_________________
Diagnosed in 2015 with ASD Level 1 by the University of Utah Health Care Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinic using the ADOS-2 Module 4 assessment instrument [11/30] -- Screened in 2014 with ASD by using the University of Cambridge Autism Research Centre AQ (Adult) [43/50]; EQ-60 for adults [11/80]; FQ [43/135]; SQ (Adult) [130/150] self-reported screening inventories -- Assessed since 1978 with an estimated IQ [≈145] by several clinicians -- Contact on WrongPlanet.net by private message (PM)


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

26 Jun 2015, 9:42 am

I don't believe, 30 years ago, that "gay marriage" as a concept was conceivable.

People of alternative sexuality have gone so far in these 30 years.



Marky9
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 4 Mar 2013
Gender: Male
Posts: 1,625
Location: USA

26 Jun 2015, 12:37 pm

This is one of those things I did not think I would live long enough to see.

A debt of gratitude is owed to those courageous few who got this ball rolling on June 28, 1969, and to all those who have endured the hardships of caring it forward. My own humble efforts at promoting diversity within mainstream society back in the 1990's proved to me how personally and professionally costly that work can be.



slave
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 28 Feb 2012
Age: 111
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,420
Location: Dystopia Planetia

26 Jun 2015, 2:36 pm

Umm.....WOW :!: :!:

What a journey it has been :!:

Even when I was a teen, this was considered beyond impossible.

I never believed that the religious Right would have allowed it.

Congrats to those who have fought so hard for this. :D



TTRSage
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 30 Aug 2010
Age: 74
Gender: Male
Posts: 468
Location: Alone In My Aspie Cubbyhole

26 Jun 2015, 6:37 pm

It makes no difference to me at all when, for my entire life, other gays (including a gay preacher four years ago on 9/28/11) have always snubbed and rejected me because of my Aspie nature, leaving me totally alone with nobody to even talk to. I for one am not celebrating today because nothing at all will change for me. The only thing that will change is that more gays will now rub my nose in their happiness just as so many heteros do to me now.



Murihiku
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 9 Jan 2013
Gender: Male
Posts: 12,948
Location: Queensland

26 Jun 2015, 6:42 pm

Wow, those dates can't be a coincidence, surely. In any case, congratulations, America.

...

TTRSage wrote:
It makes no difference to me at all when, for my entire life, other gays (including a gay preacher four years ago on 9/28/11) have always snubbed and rejected me because of my Aspie nature, leaving me totally alone with nobody to even talk to. I for one am not celebrating today because nothing at all will change for me. The only thing that will change is that more gays will now rub my nose in their happiness just as many of heteros do to me now.

Fair enough, mate. I can empathise, although with my pushy (not in a bad way :P) family I can't say that I'd have nobody to talk to.


_________________
It is easy to go down into Hell;
Night and day, the gates of dark Death stand wide;
But to climb back again, to retrace one's steps to the upper air –
There's the rub, the task.


– Virgil, The Aeneid (Book VI)


AspieUtah
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Jun 2014
Age: 62
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,118
Location: Brigham City, Utah

26 Jun 2015, 6:46 pm

TTRSage wrote:
It makes no difference to me at all when, for my entire life, other gays (including a gay preacher four years ago on 9/28/11) have always snubbed and rejected me because of my Aspie nature, leaving me totally alone with nobody to even talk to. I for one am not celebrating today because nothing at all will change for me. The only thing that will change is that more gays will now rub my nose in their happiness just as so many heteros do to me now.

I thought I was the only one.


_________________
Diagnosed in 2015 with ASD Level 1 by the University of Utah Health Care Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinic using the ADOS-2 Module 4 assessment instrument [11/30] -- Screened in 2014 with ASD by using the University of Cambridge Autism Research Centre AQ (Adult) [43/50]; EQ-60 for adults [11/80]; FQ [43/135]; SQ (Adult) [130/150] self-reported screening inventories -- Assessed since 1978 with an estimated IQ [≈145] by several clinicians -- Contact on WrongPlanet.net by private message (PM)


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

26 Jun 2015, 8:01 pm

You have to create your own happiness.

If somebody rubs their happiness onto me, it reminds me of this simple truth.



fossil_n
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

User avatar

Joined: 3 May 2012
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 159

26 Jun 2015, 10:08 pm

Feeling kinda bummed now. I was really excited about the supreme court's decision today and I wanted to go celebrate. I don't have any friends around, but figured maybe I could just go to the local pride house's party and have fun, but I should have known better. Everyone was just sitting around talking and I didn't know anyone. Walked around a little bit, and then sat down and played on my phone, hoping someone would notice me and introduce themselves. Finally just too overwhelmed and had to leave trying not to cry from being lonely.



AspieUtah
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Jun 2014
Age: 62
Gender: Male
Posts: 6,118
Location: Brigham City, Utah

26 Jun 2015, 10:19 pm

fossil_n wrote:
Feeling kinda bummed now. I was really excited about the supreme court's decision today and I wanted to go celebrate. I don't have any friends around, but figured maybe I could just go to the local pride house's party and have fun, but I should have known better. Everyone was just sitting around talking and I didn't know anyone. Walked around a little bit, and then sat down and played on my phone, hoping someone would notice me and introduce themselves. Finally just too overwhelmed and had to leave trying not to cry from being lonely.

Despite all my masking skills and 33 years of LGBT and political activism, this is me. Being a "public figure" usually sucks if the figure is an Aspie.

So, let me high-five you fossil_n for living through one of the most monumental days in U.S. history! We lived to see it in our own way. :D


_________________
Diagnosed in 2015 with ASD Level 1 by the University of Utah Health Care Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinic using the ADOS-2 Module 4 assessment instrument [11/30] -- Screened in 2014 with ASD by using the University of Cambridge Autism Research Centre AQ (Adult) [43/50]; EQ-60 for adults [11/80]; FQ [43/135]; SQ (Adult) [130/150] self-reported screening inventories -- Assessed since 1978 with an estimated IQ [≈145] by several clinicians -- Contact on WrongPlanet.net by private message (PM)


fossil_n
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

User avatar

Joined: 3 May 2012
Age: 36
Gender: Female
Posts: 159

26 Jun 2015, 10:46 pm

AspieUtah wrote:
fossil_n wrote:
Feeling kinda bummed now. I was really excited about the supreme court's decision today and I wanted to go celebrate. I don't have any friends around, but figured maybe I could just go to the local pride house's party and have fun, but I should have known better. Everyone was just sitting around talking and I didn't know anyone. Walked around a little bit, and then sat down and played on my phone, hoping someone would notice me and introduce themselves. Finally just too overwhelmed and had to leave trying not to cry from being lonely.

Despite all my masking skills and 33 years of LGBT and political activism, this is me. Being a "public figure" usually sucks if the figure is an Aspie.

So, let me high-five you fossil_n for living through one of the most monumental days in U.S. history! We lived to see it in our own way. :D


Thank you, I needed that high-five.