Height isn't important to me, but I do like to feel small with a guy. I'm 6'2, so it's hard to find someone who is taller than I am. I'm also skinny, and I like bigger guys. Burly, thick-set, well-muscled, and older. I'm definitely into 'daddies'! I'm especially into daddies who treat me like a little boy. I'm not ABDL, exactly, but I like it when the other guy takes the lead, guides me, picks me up, tickles me, tells me what to do, calls me 'baby' or 'boy' or 'kid' or something similar, even spanks me or 'forces' me to do what he wants (I'm not into r@pe scenes, just a dominant daddy).
So, for example, my husband is very much the kind of guy I like. He's an inch shorter than me. He weighs 230 lbs and wears size 38 pants. He has a little bit of a belly and some muscle definition, although he used to have a lot more muscle. He's 58 years old. He has a thick mustache and thick, wavy brown hair. He'd be called a bear, or a daddy.
By comparison, I'm 36 years old, 6'2, 160lbs. I wear size 30 pants. I have no facial hair and I shave my body hair (my preference). I lift weights, but I'm still skinny. I don't have a belly at all. I'd be called a twink, possibly a jock.
I like that he's bigger than me and more masculine, and that he treats me nicely and gives me lots of hugs. I like to get rough sometimes in bed, but outside the bedroom, I need a guy who is always nice to me.
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