What is your sexual orientation or gender

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Tripodologia
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28 Nov 2016, 3:38 am

I identify as gender-neutral, and I'm bisexual. I don't remember a moment in my life in which I stopped to think about this, I guess I've always felt this way ever since I was a kid.


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28 Nov 2016, 12:24 pm

Tripodologia wrote:
It's been the same for me. I've always identified as bisexual, but it's never been quite 50/50; sometimes my attraction lies exclusively on females for a while (it rarely does exclusively on males), yet I've mostly found myself in romantic relationships with males. I do feel that with other women there seems to be less pressure to abide to gender-related things, and that attraction is more raw and less based on how much of a "sexually-appealing woman to the average man" one is. But yes, it fluctuates a lot.

Interesting to hear this. I feel as though it would be so much more comfortable being in an established relationship with a female for that same reason of there being less male/female dynamics or pressures, but I also can't say that logic is entirely separate from my general paranoia and anxiety in social settings, alone or with someone. I suppose until we all find the 'correct' mate, if there even is such a thing, these thoughts and emotions about relationships and gender might always remain a tad convoluted.


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28 Nov 2016, 2:16 pm

Interesting last few comments, has made me think about previous relationship dynamics.


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28 Nov 2016, 4:59 pm

I wish i had a new completely mind blowing and inventive form of orientation, so i too can impress everyone with my ultimate uniqueness. but the truth is, i am plain old hetrosexual...

I have just read this post from the start and have realised when it comes to sexuality i have lived a sheltered hetrosexual life, and i previously thought i was kinky... lol....

Gosh, there are words i have never heard of before.

So many words to describe.

But hey, if it makes you happy, what can i say.

i guess it doesn't matter much what orientation someone is if they can't communicate well enough to get dates?... bit like having a driving licence and no car.... hey, but one day i will have a car again... :-)



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28 Nov 2016, 5:19 pm

Plain old boring hetero but without or consciously suppressing the desire to breed....so might as well be asexual...but I like bisexual females though.... :D almost forgot pornosexual...yeah I know...I'm sick... :lol:


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28 Nov 2016, 6:30 pm

Presentationwise I'm female because I'm not yet out publicly, but I consider myself nonbinary, having struggled with gender roles all my life and aspiring to an androgynous appearance like Marc Bolan or David Bowie.

Sexually I identify as bisexual, although one could also label me as pansexual due to my attraction to androgynous people (possibly related to my gender confusion). When I first started feeling attraction to people it was almost exclusively female, and I considered myself a lesbian until my attraction to men got stronger a few years later.


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28 Nov 2016, 7:15 pm

neurotypicalET wrote:
:D almost forgot pornosexual...yeah I know...I'm sick... :lol:

i dont know, for aging aspo's who may lack communication skills, social status (and money) due to little or lack of income etc. not to mention, other aspie traits that generally make it harder to find a partner,
porn is at least a healthy outlet for natural urges. Better this than repressing or doing something against your nature or against the law. or cutting off the parts that have urges...

hey, on a positive note.
communication skills can be improved on
dating skills can be learnt
employment can be improved upon

personally i think porn can be healthy
as long as the people in the porn are not performing against their will nor against the law.
I think that the guilt thing about porn is often created by either feminists or religious fanatics.
Personally i read nothing in the bible against watching porn...... lol



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03 Dec 2016, 11:32 am

I'm Male, I identify as Pansexual. I'm attracted to anyone regardless of gender. I focus more on who they are as a person.



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06 Dec 2016, 4:16 am

Heterosexual Female.