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How many real friends do you have?
1 39%  39%  [ 22 ]
More than 4 20%  20%  [ 11 ]
Zero 41%  41%  [ 23 ]
Total votes : 56

b9
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26 Nov 2011, 12:16 pm

i do not look for "caring" in people, because i will never find them.

i just press on, and i am a witness to the world rather than a victim of it.



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30 Nov 2011, 5:39 pm

Hi Walter, welcome to WP. I have no friends and have only had a very hard time when trying to have a friend so after a few years - o.k. a lot of years I gave up. A bunch of stress went away when I gave up, but it is pretty lonely sometimes. For the most part I am pretty happy all by myself most of the time - always been that way.



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10 Dec 2011, 8:47 pm

It is weird, I am pretty happy most of the time when I am by myself. I have real problems being touched and it freaks people out. Sex can be really interesting, when it happens because I am a total control freak about where I can be touched. I have never really had friends and relationships are very few and far between. Generally I go about my business alone. Sometimes very lonely.



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10 Dec 2011, 8:48 pm

I should tell you that sometimes so that people don' think I am a real wacko, I lie about having friends.



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10 Dec 2011, 8:54 pm

I'd love to know what Suriname is like for starters!

Yes, being lonely is a normal state. It's certainly nothing to be embarrassed about. A lot of people are, AS or no AS.