Do you ever find the opposite sex aesthetically disgusting?

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07 Oct 2012, 7:02 pm

Yes. Girls are weird and gross. They have cooties.



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07 Oct 2012, 10:41 pm

No, I find women quite attractive. I'm bisexual though.



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08 Oct 2012, 8:12 am

I've always found the male genitalia quite disgusting, imo. Girls definitely do for me :) (Of course, I do have gay friends too XD)



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26 Dec 2012, 8:45 am

Archylas wrote:
I've always found the male genitalia quite disgusting, imo. Girls definitely do for me :) (Of course, I do have gay friends too XD)


Agreed



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28 Dec 2012, 8:55 am

I've had weird experiences when I've been brought to the mall by other people (I never go by myself) where 3 girls will walk by me and I'll realize I couldn't tell them apart from each other...I guess because they all aim for the same beauty standard and some get pretty close. I also have issues with facial recognition in general so if you stick the same style of clothing and same style of makeup and same style of hair on three different people, even if they have different hair color, I have difficulty telling them apart. this is true of men sometimes, too, though.

I personally find close-up pictures of female genitalia somewhat disgusting, though I'm also considering a sex change to GET female genitalia of my own, so go figure on that one. I've found girls aesthetically pleasing fairly often but there's a weird power dynamic between most (straight) men and most (straight) women that completely kills any kind of eroticism or romantic intimacy for me. I think it has something to do with what Harry Hay talks about, where men are trained to see women as objects and themselves and other men as subjects, so gay relationships are subject-subject whereas straight relationships are often subject-object, which is hopefully true less and less these days but has definitely been the norm in traditional marriages for centuries. *shrug*


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30 Dec 2012, 11:47 am

Archylas wrote:
I've always found the male genitalia quite disgusting, imo.


I generally find it ridiculous. Female genitalia, on the other hand, baffles the hell out of me. And those bouncy things on the chest look hopelessly impractical.



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30 Dec 2012, 6:54 pm

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So, I mean, I normally don't, and I often find some girls to be beautiful even, but some 'modern' ones (or so they must think) who have as much make-up as a candle's wax, or so much tan they look like toast, I find utterly repulsive.

Is this due to being gay, or do most straight people find them unattractive too?


Disgusting? On the whole no unless they are grossly overweight or look like they've been run over by a bus. However that could equally well apply to males. Excessive makeup is definitely not something I like and excessive perfume (i.e you can smell more than a tiny hint) just makes me want to stand upwind of them. Some people seem to wear perfume/deodorant like an offensive weapon.

A lot of female clothing either puzzles me or makes me laugh. Sorry, but seeing a girl shivering in a short skirt in cold weather seems really daft to me. What is the deal with high heels?

By the way, I'm asexual so I'm probably missing lots of sexual cues there...


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02 Jan 2013, 11:14 am

Thom_Fuleri wrote:
Archylas wrote:
I've always found the male genitalia quite disgusting, imo.


I generally find it ridiculous. Female genitalia, on the other hand, baffles the hell out of me. And those bouncy things on the chest look hopelessly impractical.


I agree. I find the female genitalia disguting too!



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16 Jan 2013, 11:50 pm

I find women and men's bits quite disgusting. And don't get me going on saliva!

But on the whole I am attracted to women (and their bouncy bits!) Sex on the other hand...hmmm.



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15 Feb 2013, 3:44 am

I just find people in general(With a few exceptions) aesthetically disgusting.



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19 Feb 2013, 12:16 pm

I find men really disgusting....



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19 Feb 2013, 8:31 pm

Yes.



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19 Feb 2013, 8:49 pm

Archylas wrote:
I've always found the male genitalia quite disgusting, imo.

I sort of feel the same way, but it could be that I'm just not used to it. I don't really look at porn with guys*, lol.

*And yet I'm still bi. I don't understand it myself. orz


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06 Mar 2013, 1:34 pm

No. I actually find some men aesthetically quite appealing. Sometimes I even think men are (on average) better-looking than women because they don't have all the bumps us women have. In some aspects I appreciate simplicity and minimalism.

But when it comes to cuddling and kissing and other physical closeness I prefer women. I just don't have that kind of tender feelings towards men, I just am not too interested in being close to them (I have tried it).



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05 Apr 2016, 10:06 pm

A lot of the time, yeah. I especially dislike really muscular men. Even the good looking guy character you see in teen movies (for example, Four from the Divergent trilogy) don't impress me most of the time. I don't think they're ugly but they just really bore me for some reason.



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08 Apr 2016, 11:06 am

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I find the physical bodies and hairstyles of 21st Century Men to be a turn off, not to mention the goatees. I want a cute, cuddly Mick or no man at all.
I do not understand....please explain 'Mick'.


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