Would You Date a Transsexual?

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I am a homosexual. Maybe I could date a transsexual man, but not a woman.

Have a good week.

Why Not?

Perhaps because he is a gay man, and (openly) gay men don't tend to date women?

i would not date a transexual person. my impression of them was sullied in early childhood when i listened to a song about one of them called "the man with the woman head". i guess my mind was poisoned.

If I'm attracted to them. I honestly don't think that's very likely. Mainly because I'm picky in general and voice plays a big role in attraction for me.

True.

I have noticed that when it comes to transsexuals dating, we tend to go with bisexual men. The reason why they want to date people like us because "we give the best of both worlds". Both of my boyfriends were bisexual, so I can't deny this logic.

I'd date transsexual woman cuz she's still a woman and I'm a lesbian(demisexual though)...but honestly I think the real question would be why'd she be dating me lol...

Some men think that they are born lesbians who have male body parts, so they get a sex change and date women.

if i was single maybe. depends on the person

Yes.

My ASD seems to make it so I get on a lot better with females of any age, particularly it has seemed over the years to Homosexual Females. I struggle to interact with Heterosexual males at the best of times, and seem to find it a lot easier to discuss personal matters and sexual preferences etc with females, Homosexual Males and Homosexual Females. Not only do I feel that I connect better and easier, generally speaking, but I must confess to being sexually "intrigued" by MTF Transsexuals, and in a Parrallel Universe where I didn't make the mistake of rushing into a relationship and marriage at 21 years old; I would have very much liked to explore that side of my desires, so to speak...

That's assuming they can't be reallly good with voice stuff... or that they can't have transitioned early enough for it to not be an issue.

I think I'm pretty good with the voice thing. It wasn't that big of a deal with me and I started doing one in my early 20s. I guess it's just me.

i may have prosopagnosia and a plethora of other sensory human recognition insensitivities (eg not able to tell a persons age within 10 years of their actual age after the age of 15), but i can always sense who is genetically female and who is not.

there is some show i watched a few times recently called "pretty boys" (on cable TV whilst going to sleep and not bothering to find the remote control to select a better channel), and it purports to show the most "convincing" sex changed men, and it also shows their partners who generally come from western countries, and who are completely satisfied with the sex changed men even though they (the partners) were avowedly heterosexual "back home".
some of these partners are rough looking bikie men who claim they like a "good busty woman", and they are not phased in the slightest at the fact that their current partners (the sex changed men) are fundamentally male.

i can always see how sex changed men are not authentically female for many reasons.
they have a harshness about them. their faces are more angular and their jawbones are hard and jutting. even the most feminine looking male face is not feminine in the way of a classical generic female face.
they have a gloss to their skin which seems to show the added effort they have to undergo to make their skin look smooth like a female who does not have to work hard at it.
one can see that the hair that they would otherwise have on their legs (if they did not pluck it or shave it or hormone therapy it away) is of the same distribution that is characteristic of a male.

their adam's apples are always somewhat present.
they have bigger bones, and less soft fatty tissue covering them. it is especially noticeable in the wrists and hands and shoulder blades and knees and ankles and feet and brow ridges (and mandibles and maxillae etc etc).
the way they walk is also revealing of their maledom. even if they ponce around, they still look awkward and heavy footed compared to females. their hip to waist ratio precludes their ability to gyrate in a feminine way.

in real life, i can always smell a male and i do not like the smell. females either have no smell or a more homely smell to them. male B.O. is acrid and confronting and is quite aggressively animalistic and "in your face". like an animal enclosure on a farm. sort of uriney and nitrogenous (vaguely like an ammonia and yeast combination).
i have never smelled a female who had B.O (except for one but that is another matter).

i am sure that transsexual people are just as valid as anyone else on the earth and they deserve to live with the same opportunities as everyone else. i have no derogatory or derisive opinion about them.

i have been called homophobic and anachronistic many times because i am not able to be seduced into the mindset of eager people trying to sell me a line. whether they like it or not, there is no accounting for taste, and i am unmoved by their glowing endorsement of something i find unsavory.

Can I get a shorter version of that, b9?

tl;dr - he doesn't accept that transwomen are actually women, and believes that you can "always tell" a transwoman.

Which has been shown to be wrong time and time again (even if someone's not lucky enough to transition before puberty, there is always FFS), but some people will never learn...

it was not too long. i am not responsible for the extent of anyone's attention span, and if you felt those few sentences were too much to read, then i will leave their perusal up to others who may have time to read them.

if i had made it any shorter, it would have come across as rude in my opinion.