Do you also hate anal sex?

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Well, I've never had sex before, but I think anal feels amazing.
By far the best orgasm I've had was from riding one of my toys.

Unlike many people, I don't think it has any relation to your sexual orientation. I know gay guys who don't like anal, and straight guys who do.

I also know a couple of straight guys who enjoy being on the receiving end of anal sex with their female partners. Prostate stimulation definitely doesn't have any correlation to being gay.

There's a nifty little saying, "Don't yuck somebody's yum." I would add, don't throw things at somebody because you don't share their yum. :/

Some people don't like anal sex, and that's fine and dandy. I didn't until I gave it a few tries, and I'm sure there are others who will never like it, but it's always possible to be respectful.

A lot of homophobes throw around the "ew, poop comes out of there" card, to say nothing of the HIV-phobia and stigma, and I don't think we in the LGBTI community should really be providing them ammunition, or legitimizing their insults. It's possible to have good, clean fun and to stay safe as well.

That being said, I've also met a lot of guys who are really pushy and expect potential partners to bottom for them all the time, which is certainly unfair. Everybody needs to respect everybody else's interests and boundaries.

Gay male here.

I'm not a fan of anal sex, no matter which position I'm in. Bottoming is painful and very uncomfortable for me, so much so that I can't stand it for longer than a few seconds. I'm a short, petite guy, and I also acknowledge that tension could be an issue, but I have never up to date had a pleasurable experience being on the receiving end of anal sex.

I have topped a few times. I've only been able to enjoy topping once. All the other times were kind of boring and felt like a lot of work.

I do enjoy oral, be it receiving or giving. I'm also a big fan of cuddling.

Fingers. Other body parts are too big.

I only like it if the guy has a significant size to his member. When a guy is small to me it's horrendously uncomfortable, I feel like I'm at the doctor getting my prostate checked. Some people say this makes me a size queen but in actuality it's just so that I actually enjoy the actions.

Not generally.

As long as both people are physically clean and the ass in question is clean, then it is a great feeling.

It is only bad when one person is physically dirty.

The same nerve that makes a guy's dick and balls sensitive is also the same nerve his ass uses too.
This makes a guy's ass just as sensitive as his dick.

I love anal(I'm switch), but no, it's not ideal. I was born male, and I had a girlfriend for a long time, and vaginal... that is ideal. That is very, very ideal.

My first thought upon experiencing vaginal rather than anal was envy; thinking about how guys would enjoy me so much more, and thus, want to hold me more(my main interest), if only I had one.

But you can't(yet) have everything, and the backup route is still good fun, and it comes factory-installed, so I make do

Im gay (mostly) and I completely feel you.

I can top if my partner really wants it, but its an awkward thing to get started and do. Its hard to keep it in and theres a ton of awkwardness and fear. I cant bottom whatsoever, its very uncomfortable and just makes me awkward.

I have never had sex however I can't image how it would be pleasurable for even one party. The male party has to penetrate through a small hole which will probably hurt not to mention make their penis smell like s**t. I would imagine the female party would find it even more uncomfortable sort of like sticking small baton up their ass not to mention anal tearing (it makes me uncomfortable just thinking about it).

I have never been interested in anal sex, nor have any of the guys I've been involved with, to my surprise...I was so scared of seeking encounters with other guys because I thought I'd be rejected for not wanting to do anal, but I've met more people who dislike it than like it. I wish anal sex would stop being so heavily associated to the point of being near-synonymous with male homosexuality; would've saved me so much hesitation and anxiety.

From what I've read, anal sex wasn't even the prevalent form of male-male contact until the sexual revolution of the 1970s. The ancient Greeks thought it was demeaning to the receiving (male) partner to be penetrated (due to their patriarchal system which saw women as vastly inferior to men: to treat a man like a woman or to be treated like a woman by taking a passive role in sex was seen as a great shame which went against the standard of man being the superior, dominant force of nature. Most of the Bible's supposed anti-gay verses are actually in reference to defiance of gender hierarchy than the actual acts themselves), so intercrural sex (missionary, with genitals between the thighs) became the norm for several centuries. I at least know it was definitely in the minority in the 1950s, when people into anal sex had the derisive nickname "brownies" and it was treated more like a fetish than any sort of sexual norm.

1) It can be very pleasurable - probably more so for guys than girls due to stimulating the prostate internally.
2) That small hole can stretch significantly. Most people have taken far larger poos than the diameter of the average penis.
3) No need to smell like s**t. "Bottoms" typically clean themselves out with an enema a while before receiving anal sex. Also, "tops" can use condoms. (and should.)
4) An erect penis is still fleshy and flexible, far from being a rigid baton. However, some people do use very rigid plastic or even glass dildos, vibrators, butt plugs etc so even rigid objects are pleasurable for those that like them.
5) Anal tearing is fairly rare and entirely preventable by using lots of water based lube, being relaxed, and taking things slowly. Some people inhale "poppers" (nitrates) or nitrous oxide to relax their muscles and make them hornier.

Countless people have enjoyable anal sex every single day with little-to-no negative side effects. Some people are into giving, others receiving, others both, and some none of the above.

the last gf that wanted anal sex i wasn't able too fit it in also.. now its been like 5yrs since i kinda mess it especially the way the other ex took it like ass like a pro kind of felt like a vagina on steroids
As for me, i also hate anal sex and can't watch it on camsdesire.com without disgust

I love anal as a bottom, as long as the guy has a large enough dick and I use the right kind of lube, otherwise it just feels like I am being poked and it hurts. Anal sex on the receiving end has been some of the hottest sex I have ever had. I have had my strongest orgasms from it, some so good that they made my eyes water. I like that I can have more than one orgasm while bottoming, and the orgasms are so much stronger and last longer than sex when I am the one doing the penetration. The only downside I find is that it takes a lot of preparation, as I would never have anal sex without thoroughly cleaning myself before hand. Anal sex used to hurt when I first tried it, and its taken a couple years to learn how to relax and control my body to be able to really, really enjoy it.

I've never had anal sex, but I play with toys and rather enjoy it , so I'd love to try anal sex with a guy .

I can see why someone wouldn't like it though.