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Lightninggrrl
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19 Apr 2016, 9:47 am

Yeah we really need a new term. Someone on another gay forum suggested making a campfire.



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19 Apr 2016, 10:10 am

Lightninggrrl wrote:
Yeah we really need a new term. Someone on another gay forum suggested making a campfire.
Well, that would make sense within the context of 'rubbing sticks together'. But, that's not it entails. And, most people who do that ain't rubbing their sticks together though. It's usually some perv rubbing up against someone's butt on the train or bus.

In private, between consenting adults, in the old days, we just called it 'Dry humping.'


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19 Apr 2016, 2:29 pm

zkydz wrote:
Lightninggrrl wrote:
In private, between consenting adults, in the old days, we just called it 'Dry humping.'


Yeah I don't really like that term either.



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19 Apr 2016, 2:36 pm

Lightninggrrl wrote:
zkydz wrote:
Lightninggrrl wrote:
In private, between consenting adults, in the old days, we just called it 'Dry humping.'


Yeah I don't really like that term either.
Look, you can call it Shirley for all I care. LOL


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21 Apr 2016, 2:13 am

both! I've been on bottom more lately but that's just because the people I've been interested in lately have tended to be toppy. I mostly identify as a sadomasochist though, not as much a Dom, sub, or switch.



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21 Apr 2016, 5:53 am

I like looking at a lady's face when I make love to her.

I like it when she is able to move about to her heart's content. It creates more potential for a great orgasm.



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02 May 2016, 12:48 am

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But in practice anal sex is, to pardon the phrase, kind of a pain in the ass. There is lots of set up involved.


God, it really is. And people can sometimes misunderstand that because they've learned everything they know about anal sex from porn. I had a heterosexual friend who kind of assumed that I was an expert on anal sex and came to me with questions because he and his girlfriend wanted to experiment (which, good god, I'm not an expert on any kind of sex). First question was whether or not they would need lube, because he had heard they would, but he was mildly sensitive to KY Jelly and didn't know what else might work.

Yeah. Yeah, you need lube. Also, you need to think about this a little bit before you end up on Sex Sent Me to the ER



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04 May 2016, 8:43 pm

If the only choices are top or bottom, then bottom. The preferred method is doggy. Would that question then be front or back?