Gender is a spook.
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Knock-off the transphobic sh_t.
Now.
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Daniel89 wrote:
I would call a transwoman she out of manners but would not go along with all this non binary "Ze" or "they" nonsense, for me that is like them expecting me to give them a title like lord or Earl which I just wouldn't do.
I comprehend your feelings for "ze" but I can't understand why you so strongly resist using singular they. It's centuries old, part of common vernacular, and I suspect you might use it very often, without even noticing, to refer to people whose gender you don't know, unless you very specifically remember to say the bulky and inconvenient (and obviously exclusionary) "he or she" every time. The majority of people use singular they casually and naturally. I think it's the easiest way nonbinary people can possibly ask to be referred as, so I take the active refusal to do so as a sign of active disrespect.
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nephets wrote:
As to the harm caused, the suicide rate amongst those who have had a sex change (which is of course no such thing), is massive.
The suicide rate amongst post-operative transsexuals is significantly lower than people suffering from untreated gender dysphoria (GD), albeit higher than people who've never suffered from GD. According to NHS England, the treatment for GD is extremely effective. Source: https://www.bmj.com/content/352/bmj.i1694
As others have pointed out, the difference between the suicide rate amongst cisgender and (post-operative) transgender people is because of discrimination and hatred - from people like you, for example.
The evidence does not show than being trans is inherently the cause of the suicides, or that the GD surgeries don't help. If I were to compare quality of life (QoL) amongst cancer survivors to a healthy control group (with no comparison made to current cancer sufferers) and found that the QoL for cancer survivors was lower, would that be evidence that cancer treatments don't help?
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Arkena wrote:
Gender identity is learnt behaviour as far as i can tell, its made up of behaviour that is discouraged/encouraged as determined by sex. So someones gender identity is somethng that is taught via nurture rather than being nature.
Gender identity is not natural....it is a social construct that has been internalised as the unconscious rules that govern expression.
Gender identity is not natural....it is a social construct that has been internalised as the unconscious rules that govern expression.
This is what a psychologist called John Money said in the '70s: that gender is only learned and that we act the way we do because we've been taught to. Thus, according to Money, if we were to castrate a boy shortly after birth and raise him up as a girl, and never tell him what happened, then he will grow up a normal, feminine girl and never feel any dysphoria.
What a shame the David Reimer experiment ended in suicide. Such a pity when such a lovely theory is pitted against empirical evidence in the form of lived experience.
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glad we got back on track this almost turned into a right wing circle jerk
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