EzraS wrote:
i think for older people, most of their lives they have associated marriage as husband and wife, bride and groom, their mom and dad, their opposite sex wife or husband. something new being added to something traditional takes time for some to adjust to and doesn't have to mean they're homophobic.
I find that to be the case with a lot of older people and not just about homosexuality. A lot of older people might also seem like they're being racist but it isn't really that they are racist it's just that they came from a different generation where the different races of people didn't intermingle like they do now so most of them just have a hard time adjusting to it. Sometimes they still use old fashioned politically incorrect terms like "colored" but they don't really mean any offense by it.
I try not to hold things like that against the older generation because of that reason. It's hard to adapt to the changes made in society as you get older.