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you know audio. Its really wonderful you realize that. ALOT, of times I felt like a real whore in the literal sense that if I didnt have sex with my boyfriend I would lose them. It was a bargaining. Alot of times all i ever wanted was to be in love and not HAVE to have sex. I know I did not want to do it and sometimes would just be someplace else so I didnt have to feel. I just did what I thought I had to do to survive and at least someone was my "friend" while I had to put out.

I find that if people require sex to that kind of extent then there is something lacking inside. It does not mean you are a whore, it means there is something you are missing inside yourself so you try achieving a sense of "wholeness" by looking outside of yourself... i.e for sex. It's sometimes the same with eating disorders, eating too much to fill a hole, yet really the hole is not physical, it is mental, emotional or spiritual.

you are probably right. and your very cute... did i say that already? I just like to notice handsome guys. Another thing that I do to fill the "hole" is buy things. I just got a new toy today. An Apple Mighty Mouse for my Mapple (Apple Macbook aluminum) Im also fixing my old pc so that I have both. I need an install disc for Window XP to put on the Mapple. It will do Windows and Mac OS. i love getting things from ebay. Its like christmas all the time.

Awwww thanks

Hope you have fun with your mighty mouse (what is one of those?).

oral?

hehehhe the word "oral" looks likes a guy on his one knee and the other wide open, and then there's an "l" behind the guy.

OH a mighty mouse is the cordless mouse for my computer. Sometimes sex can be about the other person. It does give pleasure to make the other person feel better. back rubs. rub there arms. a kiss. It makes me happy to see someone else enjoying what I do. But I still side with you guys on too much is too much. Oral is fun sometimes.

I think I would like hugs. Huggies are nice. I'm like a little puppy.

No >.< I don't do anything with anyone bar my boyfriend (who does not yet exist)

Thanks.

That is possibly only the second time anyone has told me that (in the sense that I assume you mean it) and the other time was a few weeks ago by two girls (who know I am gay).


It probably has some effect, along with a lot of other factors.

But all people with AS are obviously not equal, some of us can cope a lot better in the world than others, diagnosis or no diagnosis.

(And some of us, even if we are younger, grew up without having a diagnosis - I did not have any idea I might have AS until I was 20.)


Unless you are not interested in casual sex, which not all of us are.

I am sure there are also those who are simply too shy or scared to seek out sex.


I might, depending on how old "too young" is.


Not true. It is all dependent on what "too old" and "too young" mean. It could mean ±1 day or ±20 years.


I don't like dogs very much. I like cats better.

Anyway I preferred your old avatar, the one that was actually you (unless you have actually morphed into a cartoon dog).

I am like a puppy with cat-like behaviour.

I got a big photo here of me standing next to moi ma: picture the sunlight was behind us, so the lighting was not good.
another one taken in Seattle a few years ago: Picture. damn it my ugly hair

I'm single, and never had a friend before, not even a boyfriend. Will anyone be moi friend?

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I don't give compliments unless I mean them. I think you have nice eyes.

The range is probably -10 to +20 years.

-20 of my age = a 2 year old baby

So unless I am wrong (and admittedly I am crap at math) this means you like 12 year olds?

Because if 20 years OFF of your age is 2 years old, this means you are 22. And you say that your range is from someone who is 10 years younger to 20 years older. In otherwise, someone who is as young as 12 (because 22-10=12) or as old as 42. Am I wrong and confused?

I don't think a relationship is necessarily about sexual activities. Personally, I'm more inclined to someone slightly older or about the same age, but I'm open to having an "under-aged" boyfriend to hang with. And besides, I think quite a lot of "under-aged" boys have more sexual experience than I have.

So... in conclusion, I'm just looking for friends that can potentially be moi bf, and age is not a major issue.

I think it is hard to just "become" someone's friend ... it seems like it is something that has to happen gradually over a period of time.


Thanks.


I think being a friend of a 12 year old (not boyfriend, just friend) might make me feel rather uncomfortable, though that is perhaps misplaced uncomfortableness.

Considering a 12 year old a boyfriend, even if there was no sex, does not seem right to me. ("Boyfriend" seems to imply there is some sort of romantic relation, even if not sexual, which between someone who is 22 and someone who is 12 is, I think, entirely inappropriate.)

(Sex with a 12 year old is definitely disgusting.)

mark2410 wrote:
being gay mean the odds of you becoming a 40 year old virgin is next to none.

Unless you are not interested in casual sex, which not all of us are.

I am sure there are also those who are simply too shy or scared to seek out sex.


well in the sense of it not always for others being so much a choice, several str8 aspies would love the possibility but its just not really an option for them. no gay man is a 40 year old virgin unless he has chosen to be. knowing you have that choice makes it all much depressing i think