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What is your orientation?
1. exclusively heterosexual/no to little interest in the same sex 15%  15%  [ 36 ]
2. bisexual/preference for opposite sex 16%  16%  [ 39 ]
3. bisexual/equal interest in both sexes 15%  15%  [ 37 ]
4. bisexual/preference for the same sex 17%  17%  [ 42 ]
5. homosexual/little to no interest in the opposite sex 36%  36%  [ 87 ]
Total votes : 241

Lottiotta
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23 Sep 2012, 5:21 pm

Asexual - no sexual attraction. I do have sex though, because it's nice, but I don't look at people and go "yum I want to have sex with you." I pick people I like and trust.



kittylover
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24 Sep 2012, 12:42 pm

I don't know my orientation. Severe gender dysphoria has made me unable to try. It's hard to have a relationship when you wish you were dead all the time.

The idea of cuddling with a man or more dominant woman feels nice to me. Because I don't look like a woman, though, no straight man would want me, and women would expect me to be the man.

I wish that the world would just let me die.



Kara_h
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24 Sep 2012, 1:30 pm

kittylover wrote:
I don't know my orientation. Severe gender dysphoria has made me unable to try. It's hard to have a relationship when you wish you were dead all the time.

The idea of cuddling with a man or more dominant woman feels nice to me. Because I don't look like a woman, though, no straight man would want me, and women would expect me to be the man.

I wish that the world would just let me die.


*HUGE HUGS* Please do not wish to die.

I am sure there are plenty of people out there that would be overjoyed to have you as a partner. Believe it or not some people are more attracted to personalities than to bodies.


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Rorberyllium
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24 Sep 2012, 6:52 pm

kittylover wrote:
The idea of cuddling with a man or more dominant woman feels nice to me. Because I don't look like a woman, though, no straight man would want me, and women would expect me to be the man.


There's actually a lot of people out there who would see you for who you are and love to have you in there life. People who see beyond the binary and traditional gender roles. Lovely people. You just need to put yourself out there and find them!



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E-FrameZenderblast
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25 Sep 2012, 6:13 am

Asexual heteroromantic, I think. Maybe Grey-A, but I feel much more comfortable considering myself as asexual that heterosexual.



KallieD
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26 Sep 2012, 7:48 am

Bisexual. Generally not interested in relationships with females, but prefer them physically to males.



LordExiron
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26 Sep 2012, 2:19 pm

Bisexual, but with a strong preference for the same sex (men), to the point I usually just say gay.



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26 Sep 2012, 5:58 pm

I'm bisexual, but to be on the safe side, I do have a preference mostly for women,
to the point where if asked, I just say straight.


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Vatnos
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27 Sep 2012, 3:08 pm

Bisexual male with equal interest.

I have been out for a couple years and have had enough experience with both to feel very confident about this.



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02 Oct 2012, 2:39 pm

My sexuality is weird. I guess Im technically bisexual. Im physically attracted to males and females. Much more physically attracted to females but couldnt imagine dating 99% of them because they annoy me. Dating wise, 99% chance I'd date males. Im only romantically attracted to males as far as I know.



nokosage
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02 Oct 2012, 6:55 pm

I identify as pansexual and can't hold preference for any gender because the things I like the most can become somewhat... mixed? It doesn't matter most of the time though, I think my sex drive is usually quite high but I still don't feel attraction or romantic attachment very often, I'm hung up in memories and fantasies :?



ayla
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02 Oct 2012, 7:45 pm

bisexual with preference to opposite sex


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kinako2
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10 Oct 2012, 12:34 am

Bisexual with preference for opposite sex... barely. ;)


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03 Nov 2012, 11:52 pm

techinaly I could be consider ''bi'' because I do find some men attractive but Im alot more attractive to women.
However I choose not to live a bisexual lifestyle and only have relationship with women.
And I don't go around telling people I find some men attractive. Im way more attractive to women than men. by a 95-5 ratio.
I am a christian, so that why I have choosen to live a heterosexual lifestyle. ( it's what god wants)



RyanGPenner
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12 Nov 2012, 12:22 pm

Heterosexual, but I experimented in my younger days.



greyjay
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12 Nov 2012, 2:00 pm

I put down bi, but preferring the same sex, but that's not quite accurate. I'm fluid. I tend to be more physically attracted to people who present as feminine, but what I really care about is how intelligent they are and whether or not we share interests. Sensory issues and a weird on-again-off-again sex drive present some obstacles to actually having and maintaining relationships.