Im bisexual I wont to know what do you look for in a guy

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18 Apr 2011, 3:41 pm

What I like is a guy thats in shape has a nice body six pack abs and totally buff 8)



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18 Apr 2011, 4:09 pm

I find that I am more attracted to older men. Naturally, fit is nice, but it's the personality that matters in the end.



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18 Apr 2011, 8:50 pm

I like fit guys, although I'm flexible with how muscular they are. Anyway, I think that something like that would be very unimportant on starting a relationship with someone. I'd want them to have a pleasant face, and most importantly a personality that I can get along with.

Also, I find that I am quite attracted to Asian guys for some reason. Not all Asian guys, but I tend to find a good looking Asian guy more attractive than a good looking white guy.



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18 Apr 2011, 8:55 pm

A guy doesn't have to be all toned as long as he isn't badly out of shape.

I prefer men with short hair (long hair on a guy is a turn-off for me). I also tend to prefer timid guys over cocky ones.


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19 Apr 2011, 8:34 pm

Good personality. Not muscular. Nonsexual.



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20 Apr 2011, 5:17 am

androgynous/effeminate turn me on. curvy hipsy/thighsy/bubble-buttsy together with trim waist, turns me on more yet. long hair is a big plus. major facial hair [full beards and muttonchops] doesn't work for me. military-short hair combined with pronounced bulky muscularity turns me off.



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20 Apr 2011, 11:28 am

I don't really have a "type." There are many "nice to haves" (nice tone, good jaw, redhead) but none of these are nearly as important as compatibility.


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20 Apr 2011, 1:12 pm

compatibility is the gold standard, but it's a very rare thing, judging by all the interpersonal churning going on in the world.



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20 Apr 2011, 1:34 pm

Personality above all.



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20 Apr 2011, 7:08 pm

visagrunt wrote:
I don't really have a "type." There are many "nice to haves" (nice tone, good jaw, redhead) but none of these are nearly as important as compatibility.


I have a nice jaw and red hair and im pretty well toned but I prefer muscles on a guy over personality I like to just have fun with a guy instead of dating them but thats because im a bit shallow when it comes to men but not women hehe :lol:



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21 Apr 2011, 6:54 pm

I have a variety of different tastes when it comes to men. For example I love guys who are muscular, tan, and have a macho personality. However I also like the refined older men who dress neat, look well-groomed, and act like sophisticated gentlemen.

I find the young pretty boys to be a major turn-off. I perfer men who are at least over the age of 25, and I don't like men who act like whimps. I'm attracted to men who are either physically or mentally strong.

Also I tend to like brunettes more than blondes or redheads.



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22 Apr 2011, 2:51 am

nothing turns me off more than macho.



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22 Apr 2011, 8:32 am

What can I say? If I had a relationship I'd most likely be the girl in it. :P



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22 Apr 2011, 10:17 am

GreySun369 wrote:
I have a variety of different tastes when it comes to men. For example I love guys who are muscular, tan, and have a macho personality. However I also like the refined older men who dress neat, look well-groomed, and act like sophisticated gentlemen.

I find the young pretty boys to be a major turn-off. I perfer men who are at least over the age of 25, and I don't like men who act like whimps. I'm attracted to men who are either physically or mentally strong.

Also I tend to like brunettes more than blondes or redheads.


Pretty boys are the biggest turn off for me I do love blondes well only blonde headed girls I like guys with brown or black hair I go after guys who are in great shape an they have to have a nice body its a turn on seeing a six pack on a guy with a strong stomach and strong arms :wink:



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22 Apr 2011, 10:19 am

Well, if we all were into the same thing, no one would be very compatible. :lol:



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22 Apr 2011, 10:26 am

Zen wrote:
Well, if we all were into the same thing, no one would be very compatible. :lol:


Thats so true im just one of those people who know what they like :wink: