bisexual feelings & attractions

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I'm bisexual but not attracted to 'girly boys'. I'm attracted to masculinity in men (not necessarily stereotypes, although I am sometimes).

If your sexuality is leading you into grey areas of gender manifestation and/or identification (in the specific instance you cite) then it may lead you further -- sexuality is a very fluid and unpredictable thing.

My own take is that everyone is at least potentially bisexual.

I wish you luck on your investigations, and my only advice would be: Do no kind of harm to anyone you encounter, they are all on their own personal journeys too.

I am so glad that people with this attraction exist! and I was beginning to worry....

Still, I believe this attraction is a bit uncommon (just think about how our society is), but not being the most common does mean it's wrong at all, I don't think so, because I don't see anything immoral in it.

But then, what does femme boys mean to you? Their choice of fashion? biological ambiguity? or is it their temperament? It's interesting to find out how one defines it precisely.

I suppose I was bisexual,I had been attracted to women and vice versa in the past but never wanted to be in a relationship with them.After intimate encounters I lost any interest.Now defunct.Nothing wrong with experimenting though.

No, it is not wrong. Congrats on discovering something new about yourself.

No, it's not wrong. Femme boys just happen to be your "type," that you're attracted to is all.

In the wise words of Sloan: "If it feels good, do it.. even if you shouldn't." (Shouldn't is so subjective, anyways.)

Relax & enjoy!

As previous commenters have said, this is perfectly normal. I wouldn't have even realised I was bi if this hadn't been normal

Honestly, I think this isnt something to worry about.

I'm the femmy sort myself, being kinda androgynous, and according to others, well, most seem to think I could pass as a girl with minumum effort (provided I knew just what steps to take). I look like this: http://i.imgur.com/qvIbpB5.jpg though that's a craptacular pic and I put no effort into it, but whatever.

I've been approached numerous times by straight males, who feel they could go for me regardless of the fact that I'm not actually a girl. This can occur even if they're seeing me nude (I do photos of that sort for fun), which is... interesting.

Hell, I even had one particular friend of mine.... who was notoriously girl-crazy (seriously, girls were like the only subject on his mind most of the time) who randomly and suddenly declared that he had that interest as well.

And really, I've never thought there is anything wrong with them doing that. If they still identify as straight, who am I to tell them otherwise?

And beyond that... does it even really matter? People always get so obsessive about sexuality labels, which seems odd to me. I prefer to just roll with it.... I enjoy what I enjoy, and it's as simple as that. I think many people would be much happier if they just did that instead of fretting over it.