I am completely pansexual.
No, that does not mean I have a fetish for cooking supplies. I love my pots and pans, but.... No.
Just because I am attracted to it all does not mean that I have to have it all. I just want to find the right person to share a life of monogamy with, have a wedding and share a house without any dependents to worry about.
I was claiming to be exclusively gay for the longest time because I did not want to deal with the anti-bi/anti-pan "they are all sluts" bias in the gay community. I am certainly not a slut. I can be attracted to many different types of people, but I really just want one, who I do not know who he or she is yet.
So, there you have it.