Ambivalence wrote:
Archylas wrote:
and the other person (male/female) doesn't know that you are /not/ straight
If the other person doesn't know your sexuality, then it's not a date. Dating is when people who think they may be compatible meet to get to know each other better. There's an understanding that you're checking each other out as potential partners and that no obligation is implied by that.
I see. I understand what dating is better now, thank you.
@Descartes: I'm not sure whether I want to ask a mod to help move this thread to the "Love and Dating" sub-forum yet. I think I'll wait and see if there are any there responses. If there aren't any, I'm also fine with that.