Guys and Girls are you a top or a bottom?

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When it comes to sex with Guys I am only a Top. But girls are you a top or a bottom with having sex with another girl?

I'm on top with both guys and girls, but with a guy I won't allow him to insert his penis into my vagina. I would feel...insulted (no offense to women). I just can't date a straight guy (or a lesbian).

I could date a female to male or male to female it would be interesting and fun.

Well, I'd be careful Joker. Most transfolk don't like to solely do it just because they are perceived as being "different". This trans doesn't mind though.

As for me, I would probably be on bottom most of the time, because I have a larger build than people I'd be with (females). I'd be afraid I'd hurt them, but it's because I'm a wuss.

I am also a transgender and thank you for your post

I'm male, bisexual, and substantially overweight.
With girls:
I'm usually on top. My fiancee* (female) is very good on top, but I'm not crazy about bearing weight so I'm usually on top with her.
Before her, most of my female partners were not good at being on top so I was on top.

With guys:
I don't really care for anal sex (with either gender), so 'top & bottom' don't really apply.

* Since I'm engaged to a woman (and we're choosing monogamy for now), the 'with guys' part is in the past for now.

Neither, I'm what they call versatile. I think top/bottom sounds like an antiquated stereotype... Versatile people may be in the majority.

Last edited by Bun on 03 May 2012, 2:41 pm, edited 1 time in total.

I'm having trouble parsing your post.
Your profile says that you're male, which I realize may not be accurate.
As a male, certainly you can't date a straight guy or a lesbian.
You're bisexual, since you are with both guys and girls.

How exactly does the question of whether you would allow a man to insert his penis into your vagina arise?
Are you a pre-operative M2F transexual, such that the "won't" in that sentence is future tense?

I'd never ask these questions, but they are relevant to the topic. My apologies if I'm going too far here.

EDITED TO ADD:
Ooops. Just read in another thread that you're a pre-operative male to female transgendered person. No reason to respond to the above.

I always enjoy being on top with my wife, but in my fantasies with men, I'm always on the bottom. It's all about the prostate. My dildo suffices but a real penis would be so much better.

I'm still a virgin, but in most of my fantasies, I like to Top. I'm a control freak so being on the bottom would give me anxiety about having to relinquish control. And with the exception of one girl I used to love who was taller, stronger and more tomboyish than me, I've fantasized about being dominant over other girls in other ways; to put it bluntly, just being "the man" in the relationship (even though I realize that this may offend people who don't like the idea of homosexual relationships mirroring hetero ones). Ever since I was a child, I've had romantic fantasies about being another female's "Prince Charming", though in real life I'd probably be closer to an "Al Bundy".

I'm flexible (well not literally, but I'm trying to work on that).

I'm a virgin (male), but I see myself as a bottom. I don't even have to lie down while I'm "taking it" either; I could just ride him.

Virgin, but I suspect that I'll be versatile.

Sorry, I shouldn't have assumed you were not transgender.

LOL, great line.

That's quite alright I should have said I was transgender in the first place.