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Metaljordy
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10 Jul 2012, 12:56 am

I like girls, a lot, but, I have on occasion found myself attracted to guys, I don't really know who I could talk to about this. Plus, I'm going to be honest, I wanna kiss a guy. Is there something wrong with me?



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10 Jul 2012, 4:45 am

I can appreciate the beauty of both men and women. I have no problem recognizing when another guy is sexy, but I am definitely straight. I think some people are strongly pulled, others venture to that point more through curiosity and exploration. Life is hard enough already. I believe in keeping it simple.


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10 Jul 2012, 6:17 am

There's definitely nothing wrong with you! Important is that you follow your needs and enjoy what you're doing. If man or woman - the rules should be the same in terms of respecting yourself and eachother. Have fun!
(btw it seems quite common (also) among aspies that sexuality is not as strictly defined)


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10 Jul 2012, 7:32 am

Whatever you decide, be mindful of your choices and take remember there are consequences for every choice we make; even the good ones! Don't live purely on impulse. On the other hand, don't be afraid of stepping outdoors for fear of getting pinged by a meteorite either. Good luck.


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10 Jul 2012, 9:41 am

I've reached the conclusion that sexuality is more of a spectrum than simply black and white. I'm 99% straight and have only ever been in relationships with women. I'm attracted to women and find their natural smell alluring. However, during my life there have been a couple of young men I've found strangely fascinating and even felt a flicker of sexual desire for. I found that quite disturbing at the time. I never acted on that impulse. Maybe I'm 1% gay! :lol: Maybe these feelings are normal but few men admit to having them?


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10 Jul 2012, 12:54 pm

Thank you all, I feel less, um, not sure what the word is, but whatever that word is, I feel less of it.

I also believe that everyone has a little bit of gayness in them, or straightness depending on whatever their orientation is.



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11 Jul 2012, 8:48 am

Wanting to kiss someone of the same sex is completely normal, even if you identify as straight.

Just do what feels right, and things will soon make sense :)