Do you also hate anal sex?

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I'm homosexual and I do not like anal sex. I do not see myself as top, bottom and versatile. There are sexual practices known frottage/gouinage and non-penetrative sex. Does anyone else think so?

I'm straight, and I don't like anal sex, either.

I've tried it with a couple of girlfriends--and I found the whole thing odious.

Why be forced to use lubricant when there's natural lubricant just "around the corner," so to speak?

I dont like it either. Horribly gross. Just.... yuck.

Oral is fine to me, but not.... that.

Were anyone to try it on me, I would proceed to make the rest of their day not only as miserable as they could imagine it, but as miserable as *I* can imagine it.

Cant stand watching it or even looking at it in still photos. Just.... nope. Nope nope nope.

I am not gay but having anal sex is stupid as it increase chances of STDs and HPV greatly. Anyways, do what the Greeks did and have sex with other males by using their thighs.

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I've heard people say that it's painful and/or dirty. If it's either, you're doing it wrong.

That said, I prefer blowjobs. Less work for prep and cleanup, and just more enjoyable.

I'm bi-sex.

I've had anal sex with older Human males in the past, and I can also say that I don't really like it. I find that most of them have dicks that are too large, or there isn't enough lubricant, or whatever.

So in 2009 when I started getting visits from gay Incubus, I naturally shewed him/them away.

Last October the same Incubus came back to me, and I guess my perceptions changed because he is very gentle with me.

He will enter my anal side and because he's a spirit, he can go places where a Human couldn't. For example, he can go past the anal region and extend his penis to my penis. Or if there is s**t in my tract he can avoid it and go thru my balls.

They say that sex with Incubus is better than with a Human. It's true.

Um, no.

There's a nifty new invention called a condom.. it's not overly difficult to mitigate the risks of transmitting STD's.

As for that Greek method, it sounds like it would be awkward and not all that pleasurable for either party.

This.

But some people just don't like it & that's OK. To each their own.

The idea of anything going into that hole from which shít comes out is gross.

I prefer the least messy activity.

Having said that, I have no problem with people doing whatever they like in their privacy.

I enjoy anal sex. I'm mostly a top, but I enjoy both positions. I've had uncomfortable experiences with it (uncomfortable can be taken here to mean either painful or embarrassing), but I've also had some of the best sexual experiences of my life with it.
Before I was in a monogamous relationship, back when I was having kind of a lot of anonymous sex, I basically stuck to oral; probably 85 - 90% of the time was oral activities only. With my partner, STDs are not an issue since we are monogamous and both have been tested a few times during our 12 year relationship.
There is the... poop... issue, but that can be almost completely fixed by learning proper clean-out techniques which all anally-active people should learn. I, personally, hate the feeling of cleaning out so much that I don't bottom as much as I want to. But a few moments alone in a shower can allow an evening of fun, worry-free times!
A lot of guys, gay and strait, love getting their butts played with, but a lot of guys, gay and strait, don't enjoy it and that is perfectly fine. I know long-term gay couples that stick to oral only in the bedroom; there's nothing wrong with that.
I try to be open about new experiences and trying something a second time if it didn't go well the first time to be really sure I'm not missing out on something great, but I wouldn't push someone else to follow that mindset. It might not be right for them.

Exactly.

With other people, it's like... you'd never get me to try it, and you'd get hurt if you pushed me on the issue enough, but if you want to do it on your own with someone else... hey, whatever. That's.... well I wont say "great" because I still find it gross, so I'll just go with "that's whatever".

....just dont come ANYWHERE NEAR ME for some time after you've done this, because I *will* start throwing things at you if I'm aware of it or suspect it. My usual paranoia about germs would go off the charts.

....and dont try to talk about how great it was or describe it at me either, because... well I'd probably just throw stuff in that situation too.

That's a little... out there? Throwing things at people because you suspect they might have had anal sex with someone? WTF? Many gay/straight/bi etc people have anal sex. You'd never know it if they did, or didn't, but chances are you've been around many people who have recently done the deed. No need to do things like throw things at people because you suspect they might have had anal sex. That's just.. bizarre.

It would be odd for someone to tell you or describe it to you, unless you were close friends that discussed things like that with each other. Some people do discuss things like that, but whether they're a close friend or complete stranger it would be very strange for someone to randomly volunteer that information & start describing it.

I'm *really* good at knowing stuff I'm not supposed to. And I dont mean guessing: I mean being able to prove it every single time. It's very hard for anyone to hide something from me, particularly those that I know well. I find it to be a very.... useful talent. Saved me ALOT of trouble back during high school, because nobody could manage any pranks/tricks/ambushes/whatever on me, due to me already knowing what they were going to do (seriously, highschool would have been MUCH worse for me without that). Didnt stop the damn fools from trying, of course, which got tedious REALLY QUICKLY. It's amazing, really, how much data people spray all over the place on a nearly constant basis without being aware of it (and I dont mean body language, though that's a start I guess). If that data were water, an average person would utterly drench a hallway by simply walking through (or near) part of it. When combined with prior existing knowledge of facts gained at random over time, it's easy to find stuff out.

Meaning, it wouldnt be a suspicion. It'd be simple knowledge. And no, I dont care if anyone here believes me or not. Just giving the explanation as it is.

....besides, anyone getting too close to me physically is risking me getting "unpleasant" to begin with. Typically though in most situations I explain my limitations, so nobody actually touches me to begin with, as my friends are all very respectful people that I'm thankful to have.

But no, I wouldnt be around anyone that had recently done it, because I'm rarely around anyone to begin with. I know few people in my area, and mostly they are, ahh.... not in a position to "get any" to begin with. That's the only way to say it without giving away personal details about them without permission. If the situation of one of them doing something like that were to happen, I would in actuality just... avoid them. I dont mean not talking to them or something like that, I simply wouldnt be hanging around them at all; if someone's in a relationship I prefer to let them just keep to themselves. I dont want to be a bother when that's going on, so I figure, if I'm not there, I cant be annoying/distracting anyone with my presence. And NONE of them can get anywhere on their own (nobody but me drives... sigh) so they wont come to me. Aside from the few friends I know around here, I tend to avoid contact with others that are around here.

OTHERS I know, I mostly am in contact with online, seeing them in person only very rarely; in THAT case, I just dont care about that sort of thing.

In situations other than that, as in, dealing with random passerby or whatever, I tend to default to a position of suspicion and distrust to begin with, and beyond that I just dont care. I keep my distance. That "data spray" I mentioned earlier can cause me an overload so I try to mostly ignore random people and not think about them and am not interested in pulling random facts out of them. Just avoid and ignore. After forming the suspicion and distrust, of course. But as I'm on a totally nocturnal schedule for this very reason, I can go for very long periods of time without getting close to anyone that isnt my immediate family. Even at stores... ahh, the wonder of automatic checkout machines!

Also the "throwing things" bit was partly me being sarcastic. I'd start the throwing only if the yelling didnt work.

Germs are easily taken care of; you just never go to bed unprepared. Everything that gets dirty can be cleaned. Plus, it's good to be exposed to some germs, as it keeps us healthy. Also, all sex is dirty, especially where fluids are involved. I would suggest that vaginal sex is no cleaner than anal sex when proper preparations are made.

I had anal sex yesterday. Feel free to throw anything you'd like at me.

This should be moved to the adult forum.

No way, I LOVE anal.

Have an enema and there is no mess (a diet with sufficient fiber also helps). I only have sex with lesbians, so the STD risk is relatively low.