SnickieX wrote:
kittylover wrote:
I'm 32 years old, and I've never been on a date with either gender. The very few times anyone has approached me, I've rejected them.
kittylover wrote:
I've rejected them.
There's your problem, that's where I stopped reading as well. If you want someone, don't reject them, take a gamble, roll the dice, if you win you win big, and if you lose, you lose. There's a couple billion other people to try. If you reject people how can you expect to get someone?
She did clarify as to why she rejected them. It's bad enough when you're not male, and someone wants you to act like male. I make it clear to others I would like to date that I'm trans and mid-transition, and they either reject me, or don't accept it and I have to reject them.
Kittielover, you could just continue to wait. There is no harm in that. Sometimes, all you can do is bide your time, waiting in the wings for life's events to make sense enough to participate. For myself, this is what I've decided. It's not for everyone. Some like going back for more, but I just don't have the mental know how to have seeking a partner and rejection wearing on me in life. Maybe I'll get lucky and stumble upon someone as I go about other parts in my life. Maybe I won't.