Used to be Ace...now I am bi.

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I went through a time where I thought I was ace but now realize I am bisexual. I am still confused though because I still tend to think of relationships as in wanting a boyfriend, for long term (maybe) but I find other females to be more attractive. I can't figure out if it's because I have more romantic to males but feel more attraction to women in other ways.

Like, when I think about relationships or I masturbate, I picture myself being with men, but I've always found women to be more sexually attractive. I am very attracted to breasts and female genitalia, whereas I am a bit put off when thinking of a man's aside from a fantasy situation, but I also have trouble picturing myself in a relationship with another girl.

So, I think the ace qualities are still there but one of the dead giveaways that I am not Ace or Aro is how obsessed I get with shipping characters. Now that I'm a part of fandoms, I noticed that bisexual and gay or trans people will still ship heterosexual or homosexual couples the way I do, but asexual fans are way more focused on the general plot.