I was thinking I am asexual till I realized I am in love with my female friend. And I become confident I must be lesbian. Then I confessed and got refused. Then I wondered about dating other girls. Then a guy got interested in me and was presistant for long enough I eventually fell in love with him despite me thinking I am lesbian. Then I opened to the male-female sex idea(but all we did was cybersex). Then we broke up due to personality clash.
Now I identify as bi (or pansexual to be precise).
So you could say I am bi because of life experiences... but... I am still a virgin and never actually kissed anyone in real life so I am yet to test how my body actually reacts.
My only body experiences are imagination and night dreams. In imagination I am fine with anyone - male or female but for some reason in night dreams I only kissed and had sex with girls, never guys (aside from one time where a guy tried to rape me but I magically turned into a guy and raped him instead...
). I can have a boyfriend and even hug him in dreams but for some reason it doesn't go any further.
Confusing.
That's interesting, i only think about kissing girls in dreams and imagination too, even when i had a boyfriend.