I think I've finally figured out my sexual orientation

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DevilKisses
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21 Feb 2016, 2:57 am

It doesn't really have a name. The best name for it is queer. I like people who have strong female and male traits at the same time. If a girl is attractive enough I also like feminine girls. That means I don't end up falling for straight girls. Most of the time it's women, but occasionally it's super effeminate gay guys with big muscles. It's actually been like this my whole life. When I was a kid all of my crushes were on girls except for a sensitive and feminine guy named Luke. He was really cute in a delicate way. When I was twelve I started to feel very different. I wasn't into the same guys the other girls were into. I did find some guys attractive, but I thought they were all too "gay looking" to count. I also got attracted to girls which made things even worse.


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21 Feb 2016, 9:12 am

I'm glad you're feeling like things make more sense to you.



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02 Mar 2016, 3:02 pm

I too am happy that you have begun to accept who you really are as a person.


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02 Mar 2016, 6:41 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
I too am happy that you have begun to accept who you really are as a person.

Now that I'm thinking more about it, my interest in feminine men is more like curiosity. I sometimes have zero interest in any men and I sometimes get very curious about feminine men. It's pretty confusing.


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