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05 Nov 2015, 5:04 am

Hey, i was wondering if any other girls or guys consider themselves to be bi-sexual but have not really had much experience to explore it. I have had only the briefest encounter with another girl, and you can barely count it, but it definitely opened my eyes, or a part of my mind at least. I haven't had any experience since, and wonder if i will again (I'm not good at initiating anything like that), and having ASD doesn't help too much as i am not that touchy feely a person like some girls are. Anyway, just wondering what anyone else's experiences are :)


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05 Nov 2015, 5:11 am

I'm not bi..but I love you..


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05 Nov 2015, 5:36 am

Aww i love you too :)


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05 Nov 2015, 5:50 am

Being Bisexual is just a preference, you can be sexually and/or emotionally attracted to both male and females without having explored it. I don't have a type...if I like you, I like you.


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05 Nov 2015, 8:01 am

Me.



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05 Nov 2015, 10:22 am

I was thinking I am asexual till I realized I am in love with my female friend. And I become confident I must be lesbian. Then I confessed and got refused. Then I wondered about dating other girls. Then a guy got interested in me and was presistant for long enough I eventually fell in love with him despite me thinking I am lesbian. Then I opened to the male-female sex idea(but all we did was cybersex). Then we broke up due to personality clash.

Now I identify as bi (or pansexual to be precise).

So you could say I am bi because of life experiences... but... I am still a virgin and never actually kissed anyone in real life so I am yet to test how my body actually reacts.
My only body experiences are imagination and night dreams. In imagination I am fine with anyone - male or female but for some reason in night dreams I only kissed and had sex with girls, never guys (aside from one time where a guy tried to rape me but I magically turned into a guy and raped him instead... 8O). I can have a boyfriend and even hug him in dreams but for some reason it doesn't go any further.

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05 Nov 2015, 1:34 pm

I am bisexual, but I have to pretend to be straight to avoid any hostility from my mom and/or my sister. My current girlfriend, who is also bisexual, is very understanding of my bisexuality, but also of me having AS.


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05 Nov 2015, 1:56 pm

Kiriae wrote:
I was thinking I am asexual till I realized I am in love with my female friend. And I become confident I must be lesbian. Then I confessed and got refused. Then I wondered about dating other girls. Then a guy got interested in me and was presistant for long enough I eventually fell in love with him despite me thinking I am lesbian. Then I opened to the male-female sex idea(but all we did was cybersex). Then we broke up due to personality clash.

Now I identify as bi (or pansexual to be precise).

So you could say I am bi because of life experiences... but... I am still a virgin and never actually kissed anyone in real life so I am yet to test how my body actually reacts.
My only body experiences are imagination and night dreams. In imagination I am fine with anyone - male or female but for some reason in night dreams I only kissed and had sex with girls, never guys (aside from one time where a guy tried to rape me but I magically turned into a guy and raped him instead... 8O). I can have a boyfriend and even hug him in dreams but for some reason it doesn't go any further.

Confusing.


That's interesting, i only think about kissing girls in dreams and imagination too, even when i had a boyfriend.


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05 Nov 2015, 1:57 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
I am bisexual, but I have to pretend to be straight to avoid any hostility from my mom and/or my sister. My current girlfriend, who is also bisexual, is very understanding of my bisexuality, but also of me having AS.


Thats cool, i'm guessing you feel fine about her bisexuality too?


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05 Nov 2015, 2:41 pm

I'm a straight man who has had, unfortunately, experience with the same sex. It wasn't good.



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05 Nov 2015, 3:07 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I'm a straight man who has had, unfortunately, experience with the same sex. It wasn't good.


Oh really, did you or he initiate if you don't mind me asking?


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05 Nov 2015, 3:58 pm

I've never been in any "serious" relationships, so I can't say for definite that I am bisexual. I would say that I am biromantic for now.



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05 Nov 2015, 4:11 pm

InsomniaGrl wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
I am bisexual, but I have to pretend to be straight to avoid any hostility from my mom and/or my sister. My current girlfriend, who is also bisexual, is very understanding of my bisexuality, but also of me having AS.


Thats cool, i'm guessing you feel fine about her bisexuality too?


Yes I do. We've been dating for about 6 months.


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05 Nov 2015, 4:12 pm

Catlover5 wrote:
I've never been in any "serious" relationships, so I can't say for definite that I am bisexual. I would say that I am biromantic for now.


Fair enough, there's no hurry to find everything out.


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05 Nov 2015, 7:41 pm

One time, some guy took me to his house, gave me marijuana, then forced himself on me. I was a lonely 18-year-old Aspie kid.

Another time, it was semi-consensual. I was 17. The first, and last, time I had "gay intercourse."

Nothing gay has happened since. Only ladies.



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06 Nov 2015, 4:08 am

Drawyer wrote:
I'm not bi..but I love you..
I had to confess that I was in a superficial mode when I confessed this confession.
Were you too, InsomniaGrl?

By the way, I saw the proportions of perfect face and body in your picture.
You caught my eyes when your hair was blowing in a side part.


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