what does it feel like to be female?

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Im pretty sure that Im straight and im pretty sure that im not a transgender (although I do wonder what it wold be like to be a girl sometimes), but I thought that this would be the best part of the forum to ask about this on.
what it it like to be a woman? do youse get more emotional support then guys? is it easier to become friends with other girls? is it easier for you to get into a relationship, since the guy makes the first move?

i think it is harder, female friends can give more emotional support but are less loyal than male friends. About dating, it is easier when the guy you like is interested in you. But it is much harder when you have to make that guy notice you and ask you out.

Well I've never been a man so I don't really know what your norm is. There isn't really a universal female experience. I for one am not particularly emotional, I tend to have a few good friends of whom I am very close to and I'd love to be able to use my feminine prowess to lure men into bed, but I ain't getting any at the moment.

Being a cisgendered girl, I only define my experience as a female as mostly physical. Psychologically, I don't think of myself as feminine or masculine - just me, really.

I hope to experience being female in my next life.

Do I get more emotional support from guys? Yes, because I never get far enough in my relationships with women to know whether or not I would.

Is it easier to become friends with other girls? No, because I don't do 'girly' stuff or use passive aggressive techniques to make others feel bad, which is how a lot of women I've met communicate. Do all women do this? No, but I guess I've not been lucky in that regard.

Is it easier to get into relationships since the guy makes the first move? You're making an assumption that it's always the man who makes a move first. I have made moves on men, and yes, it's easy for me to get into relationships, but the hard part is keeping one.

Keep in mind I'm biologically female, but my gender identity is androgyne, so my experiences won't generalize to the population at large.