rowan_nichol wrote:
Autism spectrum conditions and gender issues do occur together.
The university on Leyden in Holland carried out a study showing Transgender isdues seven times more common where autism was present.
I believe it. I didn't even learn I was autistic until I was 19 but even before then I never felt like a female. I always felt as if it was something that was pushed on me due to what I was assigned at birth ... The thing about it is that while I never felt "female" I never felt like I was "male" either. I know that growing up I did have typical "male" interest. I practically grew up on video games, I used to like the ninja turtles and power rangers, and my favorite color was never pink. On that note of the power rangers I remember as my favorite color was always green that I also favored the green ranger. Unfortunately the pink ranger was often forced upon me. Even when I became old enough to know the difference between "boys and girls" it never really connected like that for me. I was still in middle and high school dressing just as gender neutral as my personality. I also remember as I got older my folks constantly getting on my case about what is feminine or not.
All that continued up into my late teens where I experienced a gender identity crisis and didn't know what to think of myself. Unfortunately I had to go through it alone because my family were the ones that were pressing me so surely I couldn't explain these feelings to them and I had little to no friends at the time. When I was 20 I remember trying to explain my hectic and confused gender identity to them but because I didn't know the right words they though I was crazy. When I was 22 was when I discovered the term genderqueer and I went with it for a few years to make sure it wasn't an exploration phase and here its been 4 years since then. While things were hectic in the beginning, they eventually normalized as I began to become more comfortable with my gender identity.
Pretty complex stuff, while I'm not exactly trans I'm not exactly cisgender either. I am autistic though and whether the 2 are related is kinda beyond me.