Good day.
This is probably the only more or less actual topic I have stumbled on in my research, and I feel a need to present my opinion.
I most likely have Aspergers and some other conditions, I am a transgender (ftm), and "transabled" - despite the fact that this term still feels ridiculous to me.
It seems that people are angered that this condition is being compared to being transgender, but as someone who's experiencing the both I have to say, it is quite simillar.
I wish my left hand to be gone, and the fact it i there is causes me great discomfort, in a simillar - if not more severe in my case - way as I wish to get rid of my other parts.
It's not to seek attention from people around me or to get payed for it.
It's something that's deep within and is getting worse in time. I'm not using my hand anymore, and it feels like a piece of dead meat that is not supposed to be there, I want the feeling and the limb to just disappear.
I read a question in this thread if it wouldn't be enough to just wear a fake prosthetic.
I don't know how it is for the others, but it's certainly not enough for me, for the reason I mentioned - it's not about recognition from the others, it's about getting rid of the damn thing :v
I remember I used to pretend and to try to harm my hand even as a kid, and had been writing stories and drawing pictures with a self-insert - an one handed guy despite being nor one-handed, nor a guy..
I have grown up, and started to present as a male with no doubts about who I am - but getting rid of my limb is still a set point in my future towards which I'm advancing to, and hopefully one day it will become a reality.
I hope this insight helps a little.
Alexius