schleppenheimer wrote:
I would love to hear from any and all of the musicians who are on wrongplanet --
It has seemed to me that an strong interest in music has helped my boys socialize in the cold, cruel world. I'm wondering if that has been the case with all of you as well!
I'm a professional musician, and yes, I adamantly believe that my strong interest in music has significantly contributed to the mildness of my AS traits. (I also think that my AS traits are mild to begin with, so I'm very lucky.)
I did play in orchestra and sing in choir in high school, and yes, I would say that it helped my socialization skills. My first girlfriend played the viola in orchestra, and my second was in the choir.
Socialization was only a small part of it, though. From the very beginning years of school, adults accepted me for who I was largely because I was seen as a talented musician. The deficient social skills were kind of swept under the rug. Musicians, as a whole, are cut a little more slack for being eccentric. It's almost
expected. That's not to say that all musicians are on the spectrum; it's just that musicians are much more free to be themselves without a lot of questions being asked.
Yeah, I sucked at gym class and felt very alien on the playground, or when having to deal with my peers. But whenever I felt down about this, I had my parents and teachers tell me, "I bet that they can't play the piano like you can." I suspect that, in part because of the amazing adult support I had as a child, I'm one of the most confident people I know.
There were some bumps along the way, of course. I used to sit in the back of math class and sing to myself in third grade. My teacher wanted me to be tested because, in her eyes, I was "very unusual" and obviously "living in my own little world." My parents refused, though, because my grades were not suffering. I don't think anyone in the world would have suspected autism back then, largely because AS wasn't an official diagnosis until I had graduated high school. These days I bet it would have been different.
I believe that, in many ways, music dampened the severity of many of the "negative" AS traits. I don't get meltdowns, I don't get depressed, my hypersensitivities to sound are almost completely gone, I have decent enough eye contact, I don't have a monotone voice, etc. While I think that some of this is due to the mildness of my AS traits to begin with, I think there may be something else to it, though. There have been studies which suggest that musicians have a larger / more developed corpus callosum (i.e. "white matter") than average. Autistics, on the other hand, supposedly have a smaller / less developed corpus callosum than average (although studies can't agree on this last point). While there aren't any studies to suggest that music can "make up" for corpus callosum irregularities, it's known that a child's active involvement in music helps to connect pathways which otherwise wouldn't be connected.
A study which explored the relationship between autism, music, and brain development would be very fascinating, indeed, although the sheer number of variables of such a study would probably make it astronomically complex.
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