josephkyle wrote:
I know exactly what you mean. I was diagnosed when I was in my late 30s, almost by accident. So I'm just really coming into understanding myself. I feel a need to tell the world what it's like to be me, because the pubic face of spectrum issues is almost entirely framed in terms of children; cute, cuddly, weird, quirky, funny, original kids but then once they turn 18, they're suddenly scary, odd, peculiar, and potentially dangerous, and it's sad to see that.
I would say it's as soon as they turn
16. That's when neurodivergent teens (Aspie and otherwise) start getting harassed by cops and accused of being "intimidating" by neurotypical adults. It's also the age society, or American society at least (I don't know about other countries) starts expecting people to "act grown-up".
When I turned 16, three different teachers tried to get me to stop purging in class, using social norms as an argument. One was very ontent on getting me to conform in general. The summer I was 16, one bookstore employee saw me purging in his bookstore and called the cops on me because he thought I had pocketed a book. When I was 17, I barked at the lady who was giving me a hepatitis shot for calling me "sweetxe", and she walked out of the room to ask my mother if I'd be violent.