Indigo Girls with Mara
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7DBj3zFpbk[/youtube]
I'm not necessarily claiming she's an Aspie, but check out Amy Ray's hands from about 9:30 on (and occasionally before then, during some of the times when her hands are showing). Just playing around out of boredom or switching up stims, the way I often do? Other fun things to notice (not necessarily in this particular video): I've seen her appear shy and like she's looking away a lot in video interviews, but she's also been said to have an intense gaze. Back and forth between extremes in eye contact, not getting it quite the same as other people do? Also, she's so focused on the things she's into, such as her political activity. Enough to be "areas of interest"? She's said many times that she's very intense, including with her feelings. She's even told of kicking in a door somewhere over upset about a series of frustrations, such as sound system difficulties. On/off emotions (not cyclical swings, as in bpd)? She also likes to live way out in the mountains and woods, as opposed to Emily Saliers liking to live in the city. Simply a personal preference for how to get down time when not touring or a serious need to really be able to be alone enough? (I know she has a longtime girlfriend. So do I.) And I know relating to outsiders isn't enough, by itself, to make someone an Aspie, especially if somebody's a butch or gender bent/blended lesbian, but it's still something to think about in context here - along with any expressions of being sometimes not quite reconciled with aspects of herself, which is also another common butch, gender bent, gender blended, or trans sense of self. Besides all that, there's something I can't quite put my finger on about the way she moves when she's just talking, as opposed to the way she moves when she's performing. I don't know what that means. In short, Indigo Girls: simply a dichotomy that works well or an Aspie/NT partnership taking advantage of the strengths and advantages of both worlds?
I'm not diagnosing anybody. I'm not qualified, and I'm just a fan of the band, not even an acquaintance. I've never even met either of them. This is all in fun. But that video, with her rocking back and forth a little, twisting her ring, rubbing her hands together... all in contrast with Emily's appearance as she casually sits there...
What does anybody else think?
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