Laconvivencia wrote:
Not at all, I like loads of Mainstream Music.
I like some mainstream music, too, but I feel about it differently than other people. Music, for me, can be extremely intense. And some people just... I don't know, they may feel good when they listen to a particular track, but they don't seem to get elevated.
RevolutionWaver wrote:
For me, it isn't what I like that isolates me. I know plenty of people older than me who have introduced me to many "obscure" bands that are now my favorites! I do, however, have trouble with people my age relating to me music wise. I've always assumed that they are avid fans of other genres, and that they have a rudimentary at least knowledge of its history. It isn't the genres I listen to that isolate me, necessarily. It's the fact that I know an overwhelming amount of music in the given styles I enjoy. And even if a person older than me doesn't know about something like dream pop or post punk or grunge, with people older than me, I use the fact that this is a 13 year old kid talking about the influence of Television's Marquee Moon or debating whether or not My Bloody Valentine's Ecstasy and Wine is better than Loveless. I wasn't even alive when Loveless was made, let alone Marquee Moon!
Yeah, I know what you mean. A lot of people my age just... you know, I am 23, and it's really sad to see so many people not caring much about music. Maybe the "scene", but not the music itself.
Some people also only accept the bands they like and everything else does not live up to their standards. I have this with Radiohead fans, for example. They would never like Coldplay or Oasis because they are too mainstream or because it doesn't seem intellectual enough.
I don't think it has something to do with age though. I could enjoy talking about the Backstreet Boys in primary school with two friends. They genuinely liked the band, which was great.
Another thing I don't like is that, as a girl, some male fans of music will never take me serious. Because girls can only be "fans", but not like the music for itself. I have seen a topic discussing this on the Atease Radiohead board. I was... shocked. Because I know just as many guys with "terrible" music taste. It's quite unfair to say women cannot really like music because they're all about... being superficial. I don't know...
I feel alienated from everyone who either feels they're into music to be part of a certain scene or who think it has some... purpose of class. Either people just see music as "fun" and going out and going to parties. Or they are completely stuck up about it. I know I can be quite arrogant when it comes to music I like, but I only do it because I feel misunderstood. Because I sometimes get the feeling that people cannot imagine how important music is to me. Maybe "too" important. ^^
I think, Ecstacy and Wine does not leave you as exhausted as Loveless does. It's good for what it is.
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