Also I wonder if this can count? I know people joke about "Sweet Dreams" being an S&M song but seeing Annie Lennox in a man's power suit singing with her booming operatic voice somehow feels very empowering to me...
Cole, a staunch feminist, intended the moody tune — about a disillusioned, barefoot-and-pregnant housewife and her no-good cowboy husband — to be a social commentary on traditional gender stereotypes. But that message was lost on many listeners (including conservative radio host Rush Limbaugh!), who mistook it to be about a woman literally yearning for a macho Marlboro Man-type hero to come rescue her.
“Oh, yes. And they still [believe] that — there's still those folks holding out!” Cole laughingly tells Yahoo Entertainment/SiriusXM Volume. “It was so bizarre. You put out a piece of work and you know what it means, but then you let it go out into the world and it's like witnessing, I don't know, like an anthropological study. You learn about people. It was one of Rush Limbaugh’s favorite songs; he’d play it on his radio station! In some ways, it was horrific. … In the moment, it was galling. I remember even though Spin magazine had been supportive of me, they didn't get it. One of the writers wrote that I was the ‘Tammy Wynette of Lilith Fair.’ And it was so the opposite — I was actually one of the most outspoken feminist dark horses on that whole stage.”
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21 Apr 2024, 12:58 pm
Earlier in this thread the iconic feminist anthem ‘I Am Women’ by the late Helen Reddy was entered. The following song ‘Born A Women’ by Sandy Posey angered Helen to the point of inspiring her to write ‘I Am Woman”. In the last few years the song has been on many a top sexist and top misogynistic song list.
The cliche “product of its time” applies here. The song is number 23 on the Billboard top 100 list of 1966 and received two Grammy Award nominations.
Editors Note Twilight, I understand this song is not what you had in mind when you created this thread. I do believe Sandy thought she was helping women when she wrote it so it does technically fit the criteria you set for this thread. But I would be very understanding if you requested the mods delete this post.
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Here's one I really like! "It's Raining Men" by The Weather Girls.
Just like Cyndi Lauper's "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun" this was clearly a song about the women's sexual liberation movement. When women in the 80's were basically celebrating their right to choose who they wanted to have sex with or date and marry. Plus it was a time when women were hopeful about working careers to earn their own wages or get a former education to do basically anything a man was free to do.
These songs were feminist but also very hopeful and optimistic.
Editors Note Twilight, I understand this song is not what you had in mind when you created this thread. I do believe Sandy thought she was helping women when she wrote it so it does technically fit the criteria you set for this thread. But I would be very understanding if you requested the mods delete this post.
I think songs like that are important, especially from a historical perspective. I can actually relate to a lot of it except the being glad part because I know I deserve better. It demonstrates how far we’ve come in my opinion. Hopefully, some songs of today will inspire similar feelings in future generations.
Why are you hanging on so tight To the rope that I'm hanging from? Off this island, this was an escape plan Carefully timed it, so let me go And dive into the waves below
Who tends the orchards? Who fixes up the gables? Emotional torture from the head of your high table Who fetches the water from the rocky mountain spring? And walk back down again to feel your words and their sharp sting And I'm getting fukkking tired
The capillaries in my eyes are bursting If our love died, would that be the worst thing? For somebody I thought was my saviour You sure make me do a whole lot of labour The calloused skin on my hands is cracking If our love ended, would that be a bad thing?
And the silence haunts our bed chamber You make me do too much labour Apologies from my tongue, and never yours Busy lapping from flowing cup and stabbing with your fork I know you're a smart man And weaponize The false incompetence, it's dominance under a guise
If we had a daughter, I'd watch and could not save her The emotional torture, from the head of your high table She'd do what you taught her, she'd meet the same cruel fate So now I've gotta run, so I can undo this mistake At least I've gotta try
All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid Nymph then a virgin, nurse then a servant Just an appendage, live to attend him So that he never lifts a finger 24∕7, baby machine So he can live out his picket fence dreams
It's not an act of love if you make her You make me do too much labour All day, every day, therapist, mother, maid Nymph then virgin, nurse and a servant Just an appendage, live to attend him So that he never lifts a finger 24∕7, baby machine So he can live out his picket fence dreams It's not an act of love if you make her You make me do too much labour
The capillaries in my eyes Are bursting (therapist, mother, maid) If our love died (nymph then virgin) Would that be the worst thing? (Nurse then a servant) For somebody (just an appendage) I thought was my saviour (live to attend him) You sure make me do (so that) A whole lot of labour (he never lifts a finger) The calloused skin on my hands (24∕7) Is cracking (baby machine) If our love ends (so he can live out) Would that be a bad thing? (His picket fence dreams)
And the silence (it's not an act of love) Haunts our bed chamber (if you make her) You make me do too much labour
LABOUR (The Cacophony) Paris Paloma and Choir
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^ Wow! That song hits hard. Thanks for posting it!
It’s totally okay to get political (or not) here. Whatever goes as long as it’s not unsupportive or snarky in any way or dismissive of women’s struggles, issues, or experiences.
Are we a lost generation of our people? Add us to equations but they'll never make us equal She who writes the movie owns the script and the sequel So why ain't the stealing of my rights made illegal?
March to the streets 'cause I'm willing and I'm able (what?) Categorize me, I defy every label And while you're selling dope, we're gonna keep selling hope (uh) We rising up now, you gotta deal, you gotta cope Will you be electric sheep? Electric ladies, will you sleep? Or will you preach?
“When I was 13 years old, we're talking 1976, I spent my summer working as a volunteer for a bunch of hippies, basically, that got a seed grant from the Carter administration, which had a lot of really wonderful programs for the arts. These people started a day camp for handicapped children, and I worked for them the whole summer. A lot of these children were institutionalized - their parents had left the scene a long time ago. They didn't function so well in a conventional sense, but it seems that a lot of the children had developed like a private language or new senses so they could navigate through the world, especially the blind and the deaf children that we worked with.
From an early age, I had that contact with children who had special needs. I had lost my fear of intimacy with them - especially with Down syndrome kids, they could be really unpredictable and up to that point I had been a little frightened of them. I maintained some of the friendships with those kids and I was always open to meeting children with special needs. So when I wrote the song 'Wonder,' I wrote the song about a woman who was born with handicaps that seemed insurmountable, but she did overcome them, greatly because she had a loving family, especially her adoptive mother - she had been given up to an institution at birth."