Well, here's some guidelines I came up with for writing in general:
There is a difference between having a sympathetic backstory and actually being sympathetic.
Make sure that two people in love always bring out good things in each other. Also, when you love someone, it’s not just because you love them, but you also like and love who you are when you are with them. Characterization is probably the most important thing about a story because really everything in a story has characterization.
Maybe I'm not that great at writing romance because I've never been in a romantic relationship.
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Quote:
A memory is something that has to be consciously recalled, right? That's why sometimes it can be mistaken and a different thing. But it's different from a memory locked deep within your heart. Words aren't the only way to tell someone how you feel.” Tifa Lockheart, Final Fantasy VII