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07 Nov 2015, 9:27 pm

I can remember the first time in infancy that I realised the relationship between a set of symbols on a page and spoken language. This would have been the very first time that I conceptualised what a symbol was, or thought symbolically! So began a lifelong love of books that was (as this article notes) looked down on by some people (usually people I would probably never want to be friends with anyway):http://theinvisiblestrings.com/lost-book-land-stories-autism-spectrum/#comment-169635 Throughout my life, books have taught me far more than all the years in school and university, and I am equally happy with fiction (as long as it is not "light reading") as non-fiction. One of the things I liked at school (there were not many I have to say) was the comprehensive way in which we were taught to analyse novels - theme (which often had to be split into different levels of themes), character, style, genre and so on. I started reading adult novels at 10, entering a magnificent new world where I could watch the inner workings of a character's mind, perceptions, reactions and thought process. And when I was sad (which was often in my early teens) I knew who the funniest novelists were who could always make me laugh out loud. Some of those early novelists gave me both experiences simulatanously (Dickens!). I acquired what early social skills I had from books. For every situation in life, whether happy or sad or whatever, there are novelists who have carefully considered it; books were like, and remain for me, closest dearest friends; probably an HFA thing, or maybe was, particularly in my generation..television began here when I was 12, though it had no interest for me, as sitcoms were one dimensional and to me, vacuous. (I haven't changed much!!) Sorry for the lack of paragraphs - Captcha won't allow them today.



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07 Nov 2015, 11:13 pm

You remember your infancy. That is pretty amazing.


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07 Nov 2015, 11:15 pm

Vividly, in pictures. Some of it I wish I could forget.



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07 Nov 2015, 11:20 pm

a book i read recently and recommended to friends who all gave rave reviews is "all my puny sorrows" by miriam toews. by no means light reading and deals with suicide.



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07 Nov 2015, 11:34 pm

I was thinking of the "chicklit" stuff when I made the comment about disliking light reading - to me its on the same level as small talk, insignificant and meaningless, though obviously it must mean something to the people who do like it, or the publishers who keep churning it out would stop! Thanks for the recommendation..