funeralxempire wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
I usually find music at live venues to be too loud.
Isn't that what earplugs were invented for?
I'm good with indoor gigs with earplugs too. Obviously, I only see bands I'd want to hear live and loud. Good bands have no distortion and the sound is very smooth. Outdoor music would bother me far more, because it isn't as refined by equipment, and I might be forced to hear it without choosing to. When the sound carries at a distance it can be very annoying.
Symphonies, orchestras and musical theatre are incredible too. Again, I wouldn't want to see them outdoors, in a park or in an amphitheatre.
I realise that I also prefer indoor music because it's dark. I feel alone and safe. I don't see details about the other people in the audience, I don't feel obliged to look at individuals, smile or make eye contact, and I'm not overwhelmed by ambient stimuli (other visual distractions, people's clothes, seeing faces or families, looking at the landscape or peripherals). I feel like I'm completely alone because all I can see is myself or the band and their lighting. All I can hear is the music. The music surrounds me completely, so it becomes part of me and I don't have to focus on finding it or paying attention.
At outdoor shows it feels like the music is coming from one direction in competition with other stimuli. The music is distorted by wind or ambient noise (cars, airplanes, people mulling about and having conversations). I find that type of setting much harder to tolerate. It's overwhelming because there is no point of focus. It's rather like a little child pulling on my shirt sleeve, begging for attention. I get agoraphobia in the outdoor settings because I can see too many people and I know they can see me, too.
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