WOW! You play just fine! You don't need to learn to play by ear!
Just kidding!
I ripped that one for my daughter to see... thanks.
So here's a little more I hope can help you.
I'm not trying to be condescending, so please don't be offended by my possible over-simplification...
You already know that you play the right and left hand differently on the piano... right hand is the treble, left is the bass, on the music sheet.
Everyone I know who learns a song on the piano has to learn each hand independently first, then put the two together which is more practice to get them synch'd well.
Someone who plays by ear naturally would probably start out by playing the higher notes (right hand) until they figured out the melody.
After they either figured out the main line of the melody or the whole right-hand part, they would then go on to figure out the bass line or left-hand. I figure that one out mostly by understanding music theory without having learned music theory... confusing huh?...
I can pick out the left-hand chords and notes that 'sound correct' when played with the right-hand notes.
I'll talk a bit about music (which any better musician here can do much better than I.... please!?).
A song is comprised of parts. You have your intro, the body and the conclusion. Just like writing papers huh?
The body is made up of repetitive parts linked together with a bridge.
Once you can recognize the basic verse or chorus, you will notice it is repeated throughout the song with slight variations.
Go to the time marker 4:00 on that youtube vid.
Right then, you see and hear his right hand play the verse but it is dramatically different in certain aspects. It eventually goes into what we've been hearing throughout the piece and he adds more notes. Hope that made sense.
I tell you what... compare the beginning, the repeat at 4:00 and the very end when he slows it waaaayyy down.
It's the same piece of the song just played with a little more or less 'coloring', if you will. Get it?
You'll find this in the songs you listen to everyday...
Song starts.... first few notes are likely to be an unrepeated intro except when the song repeats to the beginning.
Song moves into the verse/chorus
Song either repeats the verse/chorus and then moves into a little 'bridge', or puts the bridge between every verse/chorus.
Song ends with a variation of the verse/chorus or a different ending.
This is way over simplified, but I hope it is making sense to you.
A song is almost a mechanical instrument.
It has parts that are placed in a particular order and repeated until time is up, then some sort of ending takes place.
Another thing you can do to learn songs is to record them and slow them down so you can pick up each note.
If you just took a tape recorder and made the motor run slower, you would get a grossly distorted sound.
Since we all have computers at our disposal here... you can do something better....
CLICK THIS LINK --->THE AMAZING SLOWER DOWNER
This program will change the tempo of any song without distorting the sound.
You could rip the audio off this youtube vid, import it into ASD, then play it back so slow you could easily pick up each note.
Because of the software, the notes are true when you hear them even slowed way down.
I only learned of it this year at Lark Camp (the music camp I go to) and it helps me to learn fiddle tunes where the original fiddler plays notes a hundred-miles-an-hour
So, to recap... get a job, marry, have kids, settle down and forget all this nonsense....oops... sorry... wrong lecture
Get it into your head that a song is just a repeating bunch of notes, sometimes played with a few extra or fewer notes to 'color' it a bit, and don't forget the intro and snappy ending!
Learn the notes he plays with his right hand first... perhaps just a single-note melody just like you would sing it (unless you're a Tuvan throat singer... but that's another loooooong lecture ).
Watch his hands in the video to guesstimate where he is on the keyboard... use every clue available to you to learn it.
Be sure to post a youtube vid of youself when you do get it!
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