Never dreamed about Aspie Black Girls

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Yesterday I dreamed this I lived in 18 century, I had a romantic encounter with a girl in a metals dress( white girl,slim , age 19-28, black hair) . When I woke up I realise, I don’t have many dreams about aspie black woman about my own age 35, unattached. I realise such a possibility of such an in encounter is almost non-existent never happend never will.

What difference does her race really mean anyway? You may find someone like her someday, though.

Do you suffer some guilt because of this? You shouldn't. Mostly you see white girls around you all day. It makes sense that your subconscious chooses to dream about the sorts of things you see. People have all kinds of wacky dreams. Sometimes we do things in dreams that we don't even like or agree with. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with you.

Being the same race or spectrum ins really necessary. But it does seem very romantic, i would just feel less alone I guess.

If you are lucky enough to meet another aspie woman who you love, and who loves you, you won't give a flying baby Jesus what colour she is.

Maybe I should say I never dream of aspies. I probably dream of NTs who I never really relate to.

I've never thought of the people in my dreams being nt/as. They're just people @.@

Aspie_Chav,
That's a very sad thought I think that deep down, most of us wish to be with someone like ourselves in one way or another. It's a matter of being able to fully relate with one's mate. I'm from Detroit which is a very racially polarized town, and I know first hand that like it or not, people do have different experiences based on their race and that one's race is often important to their identity. I guess you have to ask yourself if this aspect of your identity is important enough for you to try and seek out a female Aspie of your complexion, even though she (heartbreakingly) may not exist.

my dreams aren't that structured...
The 18th Century (to the folks in the 21st) probably seems pretty romantic. Don't see anything wrong there.

Well there you go!! !

Aspie_Chav, I kind of think I know where your coming from as far as the difficulties - ie a lot of the black girls who do have middle class ethics or who are more mellow and well-rounded do tend to chase white guys exclusively, its always boggled my mind when I saw black guys who were on their same page and quite often they'd pass them over just because something of a bias seemed to have worked its way in - which is sad. Hopefully you'll find a girl one of these days who has what you do upstairs and isn't stuck in that zone.

Well, I for one could care less about what race someone is or anything like that (I certainly don't prefer one race over another) - what I look for is character, personality, values, etc, and I know that I am not the only one who feels that way, either! Other ethnicities may appeal to me because of my interest in other cultures, but what it all boils down to for me is the essense of who the person is and whether or not I can see us growing and working together...

Probably doesn’t bother me as much as I make it sound. But when I a white NT so easily bump into another who they relate to and who is of the same age; just seeing them hold hands, I realise that this is probably not going to happen to me.

Don't say that...though I have thought that myself sometimes as well! I am sure that you'll find someone - keep that hope alive! Just keep open to possibilities...there are some wonderful women out there...

I prefer to be with someone NT who accepts me for who I am and can tollerate my supposed faults that occur as part of my condition.
I am lucky enough to have met someone NT who thinks like me and can always understand where my thinking is coming from and going to!
She says she dosent see my condition and did not believe in it until others kept telling her that they find me strange!