Making out

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What do you do with your hands when you're making out with someone? I can never figure out what to do! I feel really awkward just being limp there while I'm just kissing him and he's feeling me up or whatever. Anyone else have this problem too? and furthermore, any suggestions?

Judging from what I've seen on TV, both participants use their hands to stroke each other's heads and backs.

Every boyfriend is different and likes different things, so you may want to try several different things. You can run your hands through his hair, touch the side of his face, his neck, his back, etc. Try to be attentive to what he likes, even though this can be hard to detect for an Aspie. (Look for changes in his intensity, changes in breathing, etc.; these can be telling.)

I would advise against doing nothing with your arms, or "being limp," since this may give your boyfriend the impression that you're not really into what he's doing, and you're just submitting to him. (Of course, if you're not into what he's doing, you probably shouldn't fake excitement - try to steer him in the direction of what you want him to do. )

You pick her nose.

If you don't want it to get sexual, do not touch below the belly button or above the knees. Or you can deathgrip his heirlooms

Otherwise, do like nontrivial says, play with his hair, touch/stroke his face, neck, shoulders, chest, manly arms( ), and/or back. In short, explore him.

I've never had this issue. But then, I like having my hands roam and caress. Just give in to the passion, the sensuality, the lust...and if you don't feel that for someone, then why are you kissing them? Heheheh.

I want to experience that with someone some day, I never have.

Technically I have to admit I've never experienced it in real life, but I've done online make outs. I know it's not the same at all but I doubt I'd have any problem with it unless the person had bad breath or something. XD

I thought taht, by definition, "making out" involved use of the hands, as opposed to simply kissing or hugging.
Trust me--it doesn't matter how much "experience" you have; it doesn't matter how much "knowledge" you have. When you're with the right person, you'll know what to do.