I wasn't fighting or disagreeing. I was just meaning to show that putting unrealistic emphasis on a woman's appearance isn't fair. Time changes us all. He might choose to start a relationship with a woman who at that time is on the thin side, but she might change over time. I for one don't care how much a person weighs. It's the inside that counts and how they treat me as a person. I have feelings for a person that is tall and extremely thin, but that was never a factor in how I felt about them. In my opinion it's shallow to put such emphasis on looks. It hurts all the way around.......he might be (and probably is) a wonderful person who will perhaps miss out on some great relationships just because the girl doesn't fit his idea of what a woman should look like. And then there's probably some kind, gentle, beautiful, chubby chick that's never going to get the chance to see what a great guy he is.
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Cassandra Lou
What's normal anyway?