i donno whats goin on with me! can anyone help???

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I don't know what I am either. None of the labels fit. I'm attracted to both sexes, but I prefer women. I thought maybe I was gay until I went to college and learned that most people are sexually attracted to both sexes to one degree or another. It's not black or white. There is a continuum from 100% heterosexual to 100% homosexual. Now I figure I'm just a normal "straight" person with some homosexual tendencies. That seems to be the label that fits me best, although it doesn't fit me perfectly. It took me a while to figure out my sexual orientation. Support groups help a lot. I talked to other people who were GLBT or questioning. I compared my story to theirs. Another thing to look at is sexual play as a child. I experimented with both sexes, focused mainly on girls. The same is true today. Time also helps. Over time I became more aware of my feelings. My likes and dislikes became more clear as I gained more dating experience. Today I realize my sexual orientation isn't going to change no matter what I call it. I've stopped trying to label myself, and I feel better.

the more i think about it the more i think im a biesexual with a gay umm tendencies becuase i keep having daydreams with guys taking... well advantage of me but i donno what to do about them or how to deal with my father..who is apposed to this sorta thing. and my parents are sorta trying to get me into support groups but most of them are far and they dont have the time

It doesn't matter if you are gay, bi or straight.

If you are thinking you are, then you probably are.

If you are bi, good for you then.

well since last i posted, have had sex with a woman and well... it wasnt really as amasing but its kinda weird i mean i was expectin more but now i wanna experince sex with a male and donno what to do...

You know everyone is technically bi. Why you ask? Well there is a theory with a TON of evidence for it saying we are all at least a little gay, thats why how and why we are able to make friends, or something , i forget the details. And hey if a guys good looking i usually look at him, but mainly so i can think to myself "yeah whatever i look better than he does", besides if some of us can't get enough of own physique and technically we are the same gender as ourselves so that means we're gay right ????? Also if your guy attraction only recetnty came up your likely straight , you may be having one of those, "could i actually be just a little gay?" phases, you'd be suprised how many people get thoose.

most men just stop at lookin at another guys to compair their apperiance, i sometimes take that a lil further in sometimes fantising about them takin me from behind like the wet dream i had about my best freind an me whom i think a have a bit of a crush on but alas he is straight

You figure it out by finding a willing guy and trying to make out with him. If you recoil at the last second, you know it's just hormones confusing you. You also try the same with a willing girl. If you like both, you're bi. If you like just one, your question is answered. This is how I figured it out. Bi and happy with it.