How Much Experience Do You Have with the Opposite Sex?

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i think lots of people on here would disagree...even a sexual fling with someone they find attractive, isn't easy for them to obtain...x

i'm really not that fussy, my current girlfriend is a bit chubby...i actually like curvacious bodies....but i've still gone through desperate barren periods of no-sex due to my lack of social skills.x

that's a wonderful way to be...but unfortunately society instilled a "you must get laid alot or feel inferior" rule in me from an early age, and the emotional and hormonal impetus is just far too strong to ignore for me...who said males had it easy, lol x

7 years? that's surely an abnormal level of disclipline. thought about joining the nunnery?

lol, only joking ^.^ x

As soon as I figured out that 'ordinary' girls were just as interested in sex as I was, my 'luck with the ladies' increased dramatically. I stopped trying to impress the beauty queens, and instead tried chatting up their plain-Jane entourage. Sooner or later, one of them would realize that while I might not be 'Mr. Right', I could pass for 'Mr. Right-Now' (especially if I could pay my own way and hers!).

The hardest part has always involved trying to integrate a personal relationship into one already dominated by sexual intimacy.

Sexual experience? - Little and not recently. Im gay though so does it count?

I have been in two relationships in the past.

ive hit second (though it wasnt anything serious). i just act mellow and befriend as much girls as i can. it works.

Seen as people are being specific.. I'm 20 years old and lost my virginity when I was 16, since then I've been in at least 20 relationships, only 2 of which I could call serious.. have kissed over 30 girls (it's stupid but an ex-girlfriend asked me to count , and that was when I was 18, so I don't know how many since then, wouldn't like to try and add them up)... have had full sex with 15 girls (embarrising to admit only 7 of those girls were ones I was actually in a relationship with), and foreplay with some of those I kissed...

To be perfectly honest, I am not proud of all that at all. As I've got a little wiser I realise it's offputting to girls to know I've been involved with so many others. Well, to most girls I've met its offputting anyway. I'd also like to point out my sex life is erratic, there are periods where I've gone weeks to months without kissing, let alone, f***ing or even being in a relationship with anyone, so it's not as though I'm trying to make myself out as some sort of Casanova with my "track record".

At the moment I'd rather just wait for the "one" to appear. I don't even try it on with anyone when I go out drinking with friends, just want someone to come to me for once. That'd be amazing, for a girl to approach ME in a pub or club.

holy crap that's very similar to me!

Any aspect of it in particular can I ask??

And also can agree with your earlier post on this thread about being instilled with this idea that if you aren't constantly getting laid you're somehow inferior... it smacks of a particular political ideology that at the moment I'll just call "fascism"

This actually reminds me of the opening scenes of a programme here in the UK, called Hollyoaks (in my opinion a complete waste of time and money.. but "each to thier own")... basically you just have this cast of "attractive" blokes and women, looking at the camera trying to look thier best. Me and a mate were remarking on how it kind of subtely implies that's what we should all look like, that's what "attractive" is. It's the same with these shows that are aired on the channel E4 over here, things along the lines of "Beauty and the Geek", where they bring on a host of, once again, "attractive" women and blokes who are perceived as "geeks".

I am streetwise enough to understand most people who use these terms don't mean a great deal of harm, they genuinely see it as a way of distuingishing groups of individuals... but that doesn't stop it being wrong.

Also, I actually remember my cousin telling me about a guy he was at college with. He was telling me how this guy, from a heterosexual point of view, was extremely attractive and how a lot of girls fancied him, but that he hadn't had sex in 6 months. So I asked my cousin, "well, what's your point?". And he ACTUALLY replied, "me and my mates are a bit worried, we think he might be gay."