Has anyone never had a GF/BF before?

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DiabloDave363
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05 Oct 2008, 11:03 pm

i have

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05 Oct 2008, 11:06 pm

I have never been kissed and I am 21. I don't know why scare guys. And I never know when guys really like me.

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05 Oct 2008, 11:20 pm

Taly wrote:

I have never been kissed and I am 21. I don't know why scare guys. And I never know when guys really like me.

If I wasn't so against finding love online (and presuming you're a girl and not a homosexual guy since i am straight), i'd offer to kis you... if only to just find out what the hell we're missing out on...

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06 Oct 2008, 12:22 am

yup I had a GF for a year and a half

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06 Oct 2008, 1:40 am

I've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend or any kind of relationship. Not even a fake one.

I'm asexual but I would like a relationship, but probably no more physical contact than perhaps sleeping together (in the literal sense) and cuddling. (Kissing seems kind of icky to me, and sex doesn't really appeal, though I wouldn't totally rule it out, and I do masturbate occasionally.)

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06 Oct 2008, 2:03 am

dougn wrote:

We can all sleep better at night knowing you masturbate occassionally.

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06 Oct 2008, 2:18 am

I have never had a bf either
But it is not because I wouldn't like to have one.

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06 Oct 2008, 12:10 pm

V4der wrote:

We can all sleep better at night knowing you masturbate occassionally.

Sorry, is that TMI for this site?

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06 Oct 2008, 12:48 pm

I never had a relationship neither, nothing really serious anyway. I am looking to change it though, but my travels come first. I therefor am patient and dont make dating my big priority. However, I hope to meet some adventurous young lady soon to join me on my voyages.

To be virgin at age 30 or so, like some people here, is nothing to be ashamed of. I think society puts too much pressure on the whole thing and that image is being overrated. Those who just go have one night stands solely out of fear to be a "30 year old virgin" IMO have a bigger issue than those who deliberately wait for someone to arrive that they truly love.

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06 Oct 2008, 1:16 pm

Been with the same girl for the past 7 years, only girl I've ever been in love with. Had a few extremely temporary casual relationships when I was 15 or 16, but barely anything even worth remembering. I knew when I had met the right girl, so everyone else more or less dropped off to the wayside after that.

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06 Oct 2008, 4:20 pm

I've dated, but I've never had a real relationship or fucked anyone.

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06 Oct 2008, 4:28 pm

Although I'm still only a teenager, I don't honestly believe I will ever have a girlfriend. I've never experienced love of any sort before, the first and only kiss I've ever had wasn't at all stimulating, and the only neurotypical friend I have is a year older than me and has had his girlfriend for over a year. I can hardly imagine how many times he's had sex.

My celibacy may simply be due to my complete lack of real interest in other human beings. Since puberty at ten years old, it's been nearly seven years and I still haven't developed any sort of strong attraction to girls. Meh, maybe I'm just meant to be alone. I can live with that just fine.

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06 Oct 2008, 7:35 pm

crackedpleasures wrote:

To be virgin at age 30 or so, like some people here, is nothing to be ashamed of. I think society puts too much pressure on the whole thing and that image is being overrated. Those who just go have one night stands solely out of fear to be a "30 year old virgin" IMO have a bigger issue than those who deliberately wait for someone to arrive that they truly love.

I agree with you on that! I wish society would believe that being a virgin at any age is a good idea until you get married.

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