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AussieMatt
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06 Oct 2008, 11:49 pm

From Aspergers to Autism have very long range of different symptoms. Like myself i have mild aspie which is halfway average aspie to normal person. Lucky i'm not like that spastic person personally because he or she wouldn't get a job, have own family and that.

I know i can have it all but someone (even likewise girls) should noted that i'm not stupid enough to make myself spastic un-naturally. I can communicate, have sex, do my job, look after myself, make things and that like a normal person! I try things. Like when i want a girlfriend (which i want to after my HSC-finishes 6th Nov), it not end of my world. it not about i seeing someone else got one. It my own choice that i want to make it more comfortable. Its my personal goal for family of my own.

I just finished high school 2 weeks ago, finally i got out of immature people zone. Now i want to jump into different whole new world towards my new job and university. Making friends there of course is easier. But what i noticed naturally have a girlfriend is sighting by eyes, not like typical teenagers going to rush hour traffic.

I am cool, nice, smart and strong person with self beliefs. I want to be meteorologist with dream job at local council. I'm not like money maker type of person, i just want money to make my dreams. I know it does sound stupid my dream r/ship is marriage but its nice to have that way. I like my life to become busy.

Anyone would help me a little in those areas about understanding to meet of my 'the one'?

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07 Oct 2008, 12:11 am

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07 Oct 2008, 2:18 am

Go on, i will be suprised.


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07 Oct 2008, 2:26 am

Then it shall begin.

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07 Oct 2008, 2:41 am

You are not giving out relevant information idiot!


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07 Oct 2008, 2:46 am

Idiot? I'm the idiot for not dishing out free information before learning if a person even has the capacity to use it?

You seem too quick to outbursts of negative emotion. Like.... a woman. To be a man a woman wants, you have to be an emotional anchor for her. The "how to" will elude you completely if you refuse to change that piss-poor attitude of yours.

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07 Oct 2008, 2:51 am

Excuse me. I wasn't being negative. I am blaming them for that.


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07 Oct 2008, 9:49 pm

Where are the friggin replies?


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07 Oct 2008, 10:03 pm

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Where are the friggin replies?
China?

Haha. I am in the same boat friend. Although casual relationships are fun and so are sexually charged friendships ... i much prefer the idea or long term. My advice is work on yourself and the good ones will come. Make sure you are busy and having fun.

Advice passed onto me by a 35 year old man(happily married) was this ... work on yourself and career so that when the time comes you will be ready to start off on the right foot.

I do not know about you but my impatience is extremely thick so i have taken it on myself to look for the hidden lesson in patience ...

or if that doesn't work take my twice divorced fathers advice "f**k em all and the good one's will come" ... he might have meant "cum" but i would like to think my dads not that derogatory towards the opposite sex ... :roll:


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07 Oct 2008, 10:08 pm

Yea my parents are seperated. I'm not into those crap in divorces. Those are hectic stupid.

I'm pretty sure i will get caught by girl's eyes to get into r/ship one day. Like scenes on movies etc (not really necessary to make it like a movie, but i like it real).

For yourself and myself, its hopeless for those girls are not considered in understanding about disabilities stuff. I'm not like spastic person and either you are. Its ridiculous for them to reject me before we get to know each others! I'm not into rush hour traffic though.


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07 Oct 2008, 10:14 pm

Ha ha yeah. I figured out a long time ago my eyes are like mouse traps for women ... they alone have power. but only because i actually listen and also maintain eye contact ...

because we are young i say follow in my path, mess around, keep sex sacred (as in do not sleep with every girl you meet.date) and enjoy the ride ...

personally i love emotions. nothing feel greater than getting myself into a verbal battle, or having my heart all sorts of twisted ... like physical pain it makes me feel alive.

just do not fall into the whole "I have to drink, smoke, toke, shoot up, snort up" scene. In fact be like me and first master the ability to not use inhibitors. Thats my real strength i forced myself to not use drugs and alcohol. now i use them and it is like one more experience ... like everything else. just be careful about doing certain things and then having sex ... it makes it that much more powerful and also that much more erm ... depressing ... if you end up splitting.

Oh and words of advice do not use your "syndromes" as excuses to explain yourself ... women just do not understand.

However i dated a dyslexic once and it was by far the best thing ever. she knew all about the pain of being judged by something you could not fully control. oh and it helped she was at least a perfect 8 on the beauty scale. blue eyes brown hair b cups and the lower build of a soccer goddess ... i will be seeing her this winter actually. Great girl.


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08 Oct 2008, 12:12 am

I won't ever use drugs and alcohol ever in my life and either i DO NOT look in girls to have them. Because its so stupid and horrible to live with industrialized world of diseases and mentality from alcohol.

I would suggest 'eye' contact is very reliable for connection with inspirational and passion. I think i heard about that can make life long marriage/relationship because of inspirationals and commitments. I think i try to go with this but what i should do about this?

DESIRE?


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08 Oct 2008, 10:35 pm

I don't know why my questions are never answered? I think people in here are too mental.


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09 Oct 2008, 4:25 am

Well people in here are being considered to be like this

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10 Oct 2008, 6:11 pm

Reminder: Please feel free to post replies in here to specific topic.


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10 Oct 2008, 6:29 pm

AussieMatt wrote:
I don't know why my questions are never answered? I think people in here are too mental.


I think when you called the person who was going to help you an idiot, you pretty much shot yourself in the foot. You can't be rude, make derogatory comments and then expect others to help you.


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