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13 Oct 2008, 1:20 pm

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PICKY?

i'm the last person you could call picky! I'm not looking for Brad Pitt or anything, just someone who is kind and respectful, which I think is fair enough!

there are lots of kind and respectful people out there, autistics quite often are but dont show it often

P.S. didnt post my email in my last post, and site wont let me post it until i have made 5 posts or something lol



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13 Oct 2008, 1:53 pm

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well, just look how many replies your thread got, you've got quite a bit of choice here ^.^


Yep, I think this thread proves that it is a LOT more easy for a woman to get a boyfriend than it is for a man to get a girlfriend.


well, only on the internet...on an aspie site on the internet...i mean, she said she hasn't had any in 2 years, she could be a complete shut-in or something. IRL things work a little bit differently x



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13 Oct 2008, 2:21 pm

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well, just look how many replies your thread got, you've got quite a bit of choice here ^.^


yes, I've had a fair few replies, but that doesn't mean they're close geographically or that I get on with them. it's all very hit and miss, as it were.



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13 Oct 2008, 2:48 pm

i'm trying to think if i know any single aspie guys around cambridge/norfolk/london etc lol



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13 Oct 2008, 2:57 pm

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well, only on the internet...on an aspie site on the internet...i mean, she said she hasn't had any in 2 years, she could be a complete shut-in or something. IRL things work a little bit differently x


If you meet someone on the internet, you can arrange a real life date.



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13 Oct 2008, 3:00 pm

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yes, I've had a fair few replies, but that doesn't mean they're close geographically or that I get on with them. it's all very hit and miss, as it were.


It should be no problem to find a UK-forum for Asperger, where you can meet someone relatively close, maybe not the same town or village, but still quite close. I am sure there are a dozen of guys who would travel a LOOOONG way to meet you.



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13 Oct 2008, 3:06 pm

i travelled to london to get laid once...i'm not proud of it XD



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14 Oct 2008, 4:36 am

Hi 'jinxed', I am 45 and reckon "I am more jinxed than you".

I've tried 'dating sites', 'personal ads', 'going out, sport, cinema, gigs etc', even put personal ads in newsagents windows etc

Have you tried the well known UK aspie website?



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14 Oct 2008, 10:52 am

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i'm trying to think if i know any single aspie guys around cambridge/norfolk/london etc lol


lol,that would be handy ;)



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14 Oct 2008, 10:53 am

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Hi 'jinxed', I am 45 and reckon "I am more jinxed than you".

I've tried 'dating sites', 'personal ads', 'going out, sport, cinema, gigs etc', even put personal ads in newsagents windows etc

Have you tried the well known UK aspie website?


which site?

I've actually tried a couple of dating sites, through one i've met an aspergic guy who is near me, but i don't think he wants more than friendship...



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14 Oct 2008, 11:16 am

jinxed wrote:
Xanderbeanz wrote:
i'm trying to think if i know any single aspie guys around cambridge/norfolk/london etc lol


lol,that would be handy ;)


There should be PLENTY in London... She would have a whole BUNCH of admirers...



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14 Oct 2008, 11:29 am

This was a very entertaining thread.

I'll join the queue by PMing you, more out of interest than anything else.



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14 Oct 2008, 11:45 am

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This was a very entertaining thread.

I'll join the queue by PMing you, more out of interest than anything else.


Interested, isnt that what all here are??



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14 Oct 2008, 12:09 pm

jinxed wrote:
pixiedixie wrote:
Hi 'jinxed', I am 45 and reckon "I am more jinxed than you".

I've tried 'dating sites', 'personal ads', 'going out, sport, cinema, gigs etc', even put personal ads in newsagents windows etc

Have you tried the well known UK aspie website?


which site?

I've actually tried a couple of dating sites, through one i've met an aspergic guy who is near me, but i don't think he wants more than friendship...

well you seem very nice jinxed so i think many guys here would probably travel across the UK to meet u :D



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14 Oct 2008, 12:38 pm

lol,thank you. one guy offered, but that was just for a f***,so we're just mates,lol.



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14 Oct 2008, 12:51 pm

Lol, Jinxed, you opened a large can of worms by sending a message out like this. Every shy autistic guy will want to be your friend here, it's kind of funny. But I'm not one to talk, since I did the same thing :lol: