What do you like in the gender that you are attracted to?

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24 Feb 2006, 1:03 am

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I wanted to save him the embarressment of the forums and avoid starting public drama.

Gee, there's never any of that here. [/sarcasm] :P :lol:


I thought it was funny that she thinks she was going to be able to embarrass me.

I ended the drama in the Haven forum by clarifying my intentions. Save the drama fo yo mama! :lol:



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24 Feb 2006, 9:41 am

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I would have to admit I'm attracted to looks. Largely because it's hard to experience a woman's personality walking by her in the hall or seeing her across the room.

We probably all have a physical type that's immediately attractive to us, but I've found that the initial "wow! He's sexy" can be totally blown out of the water the minute a guy utters his first sentence.....or conversely, someone I hadn't noticed can become incredibly attractive based on what he says :).


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24 Feb 2006, 10:07 am

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I would have to admit I'm attracted to looks. Largely because it's hard to experience a woman's personality walking by her in the hall or seeing her across the room.

We probably all have a physical type that's immediately attractive to us, but I've found that the initial "wow! He's sexy" can be totally blown out of the water the minute a guy utters his first sentence.....or conversely, someone I hadn't noticed can become incredibly attractive based on what he says :).


Excellent point.


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24 Feb 2006, 10:16 am

grayson wrote:
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I would have to admit I'm attracted to looks. Largely because it's hard to experience a woman's personality walking by her in the hall or seeing her across the room.

We probably all have a physical type that's immediately attractive to us, but I've found that the initial "wow! He's sexy" can be totally blown out of the water the minute a guy utters his first sentence.....or conversely, someone I hadn't noticed can become incredibly attractive based on what he says :).


This is so true. That's why I usually don't try to notice looks first. I notice something that they're doing or holding that interests me.



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24 Feb 2006, 11:30 am

I did a search for "pansexual" on Google and found a Wikipedia article that listed not only that, but other forms of sexual orientations that I've never heard of.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation

One day we're going to have people attracted to computers, stereo speakers, newspapers, groceries, traffic signals, propane, clouds, planets, stadiums, and websites. And don't say it won't happen - anything is possible in the modern world of self-righteous pompous attitudes.

Canada will probably be the first country in North America to allow such marriages. Some druggie in Vancouver will probably feel attracted to the planet Neptune, but then complain to the Supreme Court with assistance from Svend Robinson, citing that somehow the Charter of Rights and Freedoms guarantees the right to marry anyone, whether male, female, or inanimate object or celestial body. And the Supreme Court will rule that he has the right to marry Neptune, and Neptune will become a Canadian taxpayer somehow.

And, in keeping with the left-wing spirit of Canada, since Neptune has status as a celestial "body", it will have the right to do whatever it wants to its own body. Not that it COULD do anything, but somehow Dr. Morgantoler would get involved and help make that right guaranteed in the law.



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24 Feb 2006, 1:59 pm

ELLCIM wrote:
e the first country in North America to allow such marriages. Some druggie in Vancouver will probably feel attracted to the planet Neptune, but then complain to the Supreme Court with assistance from Svend Robinson, citing that somehow the Charter of Rights and Freedoms guarantees the right to marry anyone, whether male, female, or inanimate object or celestial body. And the Supreme Court will rule that he has the right to marry Neptune, and Neptune will become a Canadian taxpayer somehow.

And, in keeping with the left-wing spirit of Canada, since Neptune has status as a celestial "body", it will have the right to do whatever it wants to its own body. Not that it COULD do anything, but somehow Dr. Morgantoler would get involved and help make that right guaranteed in the law.


Hahaha. Thats the funniest thing I've read all day.



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26 Feb 2006, 1:12 pm

If you can be pansexual, why not be "Pan-American"?

Some of us are Americans. Some of us are Aussies, Chinese, French, Romanian, or Canadian. But there are some out there that I call Pan-American. These are people with a cultural identity crisis: they weren't born in a specific country, they don't live or work in a specific country, and they don't have allegance to a specific country. They are nomads of sorts, migrating from Canada to Argentina to Cuba to Honduras to the United States to Brazil and all other countries in the Americas, all in a matter of hours. A golf game to them has the first tee in Venezuela, the 5th fairway in Newfoundland, the 11th tee in Mexico, 18th green in Alberta, and the clubhouse in Haiti. Their linguistic skills are incredible; they fluently speak English, French, Spanish, and dozens of Aboriginal dialects from Inuit to Mayan. One second they'll be working on a barge on the Panama Canal; another second they'll be flipping burgers at McDonalds in Toronto; another second they'll be roasting coffee beans in Brazil.

And why not stop there? A person can be pan-coloured too, like a zebra. Or, they can be pan-gendered, exhibting not only male and female characteristics, but all the genders of the world that exist in some animal species.

How about being in a pan-relationship, where all girls are your girlfriend? Or watch a pan-television, where you can watch all the channels of the world simultaneously.

Alrighty, time to go back to my political science paper!



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26 Feb 2006, 3:59 pm

bi curious and I like boys and girls in glasses no clue why.


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26 Feb 2006, 6:13 pm

I'm attracted to people I'm attracted to. What I mean by this is that once I'm attracted to someone I find them (even) more attractive. So that's looks.

Personality: Calm, and able to handle that I am not, are two biggies. Intelligent. Must, must, must have a sense of humor buried in there somwhere. Would far preferably find me funny in some cases. Would also far preferably find me attractive (or else why the frick would they want to date me?)

((Not that it matters as I'm taken and he meets these criteria but I thought I'd give this input.))

OK, fine. Looks-wise I have a thing for glasses. And I hate the bodybuilder look, both visually and its implications. Muscles are one thing but a guys' head should be thicker than his arms.



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27 Feb 2006, 5:17 pm

I have decided to not partake in rituals that lead to pro-creation until the causes of Asperger's Syndrome have been discovered. I do not wish to perpetuate the disorder any further.

Hypothetically speaking, however, If AS is proven not to be a genetic disease, I will look for a female with exceptional intellectual and physical qualities - specifically tailored to my interests and that of mankind's future: genetic dispositions to excellence in all academic fields, physical strength and ability, self control, ect.



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27 Feb 2006, 5:29 pm

Feisty alternative girls. I don't mean goths or pachuli-loaded hippies, usually it's the girls who are kinda on that raver/hip-hop edge (dress preppy but wear it alternative), have a lot of emotional intelligence, and have or are getting their lives together pretty well.


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28 Feb 2006, 5:53 am

lowfreq50 wrote:
There are only 2 genders. XX and XY. In some very rare instances, there are other combinations of chromosomes, but these are so rare as to be non-factors.

Therefore, the right word is BIsexual.

Bisexual means that you are interested in both genders for their own value. I identify as bisexual because I don't have a preference for either and it's a term people inderstand, but in reality my preference is for androgeny. This means that while I like guys and like girls, I'd prefer to be with people who don't strongly represent either gender.


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28 Feb 2006, 5:55 am

TheBladeRoden wrote:
I would have to admit I'm attracted to looks. Largely because it's hard to experience a woman's personality walking by her in the hall or seeing her across the room.

Some of my closest friends and strongest attractions have been to poeple I met online. You may not experience a woman's personality by walking by her in the hall, but you also can't tell if she's attractive based on her posts....


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28 Feb 2006, 6:00 am

ELLCIM wrote:
Canada will probably be the first country in North America to allow such marriages. Some druggie in Vancouver will probably feel attracted to the planet Neptune, but then complain to the Supreme Court with assistance from Svend Robinson, citing that somehow the Charter of Rights and Freedoms guarantees the right to marry anyone, whether male, female, or inanimate object or celestial body.

Considering Svend lost in the last election, I think his impact on the courts and public opinion will be somewhat muted for the forseeable future.
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Not that it COULD do anything, but somehow Dr. Morgantoler would get involved and help make that right guaranteed in the law.

I haven't heard that name in ages. Is he still around?


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28 Feb 2006, 10:09 pm

Jetson wrote:
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Not that it COULD do anything, but somehow Dr. Morgantoler would get involved and help make that right guaranteed in the law.

I haven't heard that name in ages. Is he still around?


Morgantoler is alive and well - just last June he received an honorary law degree from the University of Western Ontario, amid much controversy. But we're not here to talk about that.



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02 Mar 2006, 12:23 pm

I fell for a man because of his eyes, He had some great attributes but he made me feel as though I had found a best friend, enough said.
I fell for my husband because of his consideration and his smile, later I fell in love with his eyes. The way they look at me sometimes.
I think the eyes are the windows to the soul, and I am attracted to desirable souls. :wink:


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