Jacobison wrote:
Yeah it sucks. Worst part is, the secret had nothing to do with autism, and I've never told anyone else the secret and I get shot down badly. It really sucks because she was pretty much everything I was looking for. (The usual package, smart, funny, good looking, and even with that bit of eccentric that I added earlier.) We spent some really great times over the not-so-long time we've got to known each other, and now we don't even talk/text anymore.
I'm getting over it, but just when I think I'm fully over it, I think of one more thing that we did that was good or something, and I just get a little down, ya know. But, I'll probably be over it soon. Or hopefully.
I think this lesson was learned, but it's worth repeating -- don't ever tell a woman a secret you want kept, even if she's revealing secrets to you. They blab to everyone, and some secrets just creep them out too much. Either way, it's bad for you.